A few weeks ago, Tamar came across an instagram post in which a woman sent a Venmo request to the woman who had an affair with her husband. In the memo, she explained that since this woman played a role in her divorce, the other woman should at least contribute to it financially. She hashtagged the memo with "homewrecker"

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This got Tamar thinking about accountability and who is actually responsible for the end of a marriage. Spoiler alert: it's not the woman who didn't take vows.

In this episode, Tamar:

• Breaks down the misogyny behind the concept of the homewrecker and why we need to stop using the word
• Looks at how the idea of "girl code" stays with women throughout their lives
• Focuses on the importance of holding men, and men alone, accountable for the actions of men
• Differentiates between being responsible for causing pain and being responsible for the status of a marriage.

Share your thought on this episode on Instagram or email Tamar at [email protected]. Happy listening!