We're Not Kidding

We're Not Kidding

By Anna Marie OlsonSociety & Culture
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We're Not Kidding episodes

  • Ilinca Roibu: Shares Her Research On Childfree Women

    Ilinca conducted research on the lived experiences of childfree women for her undergraduate dissertation. We talk about her experience doing this research and what she learned from interviewing 13 childfree women residing in Western English-speaking countries. 

    You can read Ilinca's dissertation here. 

    You can share your thoughts and feedback with Ilinca by connecting with her on Instagram, @ilincaroibu.

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    41 min
  • Robin: A Conversation Between CF Friends

    This is a very special episode for me. I sat down with one of my dearest friends, Robin. For the first time in our 20-year friendship, we have an in-depth conversation about the fact that we're both childfree and what that means to us and our friendship.

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    50 min
  • Mary Benbenek: On Navigating Dating & Friendships While Being Childfree

    Mary shares her journey of leaving the engineering field to start a coaching practice. We also talk about her experiences dating as a childfree woman and navigating the changing dynamics of friendship as friends become parents.

    If you're interested in any of the topics or resources Mary and I touched on (and the ones we didn't), send her an email here and ask for her resource guide. She'll happily share the books, ideologies, and websites that have been transformative for her. You can email her at [email protected].

    You can also connect with Mary on her Instagram accounts: @marybenbenek and

    @merrilymaryjean

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    48 min
  • Liz Combdon: On Finding Contentment

    Liz shares her deeply personal journey navigating an unexpected experience in her childfree life. After going through something she never envisioned, she reconnects to herself and her purpose, finding contentment along the way. You won't want to miss this episode!

    Liz is a wildly successful entrepreneur. She runs three businesses, all of which can be found on Instagram:

    @seasaltandtwig

    @lizcombdonwellness
    @puravidahomestead

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    51 min
  • Keltie Maguire: Living By Design Rather Than Default

    Keltie is a clarity coach who specializes in helping business leaders and entrepreneurs. In this episode, she shares her story and applies her clarity expertise to the topic of being childfree. 

    Here are the four questions she discusses in the episode:

    1. What would I choose if ____'s perspective didn't matter?
    2. What would I choose if I knew that the outcome was guaranteed?
    3. What if I can be fulfilled either way?
    4. What do I stand to gain if I decide to be childfree?
    5. For even more clarity questions from Keltie, you can access her clarity guide here.

      You can connect with Keltie on Instagram, LinkedIn, or through her website.

      40 min
    6. Solo Episode: Limiting Beliefs

      When deciding whether or not to have kids, if you're not 100% sure one way or the other, limiting beliefs can trip you up and keep you stuck from moving forward with your life. I talk through some common limiting beliefs I've seen come up concerning this decision, as well as how to identify the limiting beliefs that might be keeping you stuck and how to move through them.

      Let me know what you think of this episode.

      DM me on Instagram or email me your thoughts at [email protected]

      20 min
    7. Shweta Ramkumar: On Finding Childfree Community

      Shweta is passionate about all things childfree. She has written numerous blogs and has been instrumental in bringing childfree people together in Melbourne where she lives.

      Connect with Shweta on Instagram: @childfreesrbuddysmum

      Watch other interviews with Shweta: 

      https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5g2FkiUznVk&list=PLrKJQMlU-aAmDEG6RQ34g4h_06B85CLEN&index=3

      https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PCC_eRcxxI8&list=PLrKJQMlU-aAmDEG6RQ34g4h_06B85CLEN&index=1

      https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YkAPaUqGYhg&list=PLrKJQMlU-aAmDEG6RQ34g4h_06B85CLEN&index=4

      35 min
    8. Alanna Harris: On Knowing At 18 She Was Childfree

      Alanna shares her insights and experiences in becoming confident in her decision to be childfree and her ability to meet people where they're at, even when they don't understand her choice. 

      Connect with Alanna through her AlannaAccessories accounts on Instagram, Facebook, and Etsy.

      53 min
    9. Patty Thornicroft: Travel & The Childfree Lifestyle

      Patty shares her experience as a childfree woman and avid traveler. She's been to 75 countries and counting and doesn't have a single regret for deciding to be childfree.

      Connect with Patty on Instagram and check out her amazing travel photos: @pattytraveladventures

      43 min

    About We're Not Kidding

    From the publisher's feed

    People have been opting out of parenthood for a long time, yet being childfree still feels taboo. This podcast is devoted to sharing the stories of the childfree and breaking the stigma.