Scripture: 1 Thessalonians 2:7-13. Speaker: Andy Barton. Series: What the Ministry Means to Me. Preached Sunday, October 25, 2026 at West Orange Christian Church, Orlando, Florida. Key scriptures: 1 Thessalonians 2:7-13; Acts 17; John 13:34-35; 2 Corinthians 5:14; John 21; 1 Thessalonians 3:8.
Introduction
Part 2 of the two-part series in 1 Thessalonians 2. The question behind it: What does the ministry mean to me, and what does it mean to you?
> "...we were well pleased to impart to you not only the gospel of God, but also our own lives, because you had become very dear to us." (1 Thessalonians 2:8)
- In 1665 plague swept through London. Those who had the means fled to the countryside, but some ministers stayed, believing "their responsibility to the people did not disappear when the circumstances became more and more dangerous."
- One of them was Thomas Vincent, a Puritan minister who remained in London during the great plague. He visited the sick, comforted the dying and kept preaching, and later wrote about God's providence during the plague.
- "What causes a man to be willing to risk his life for the well-being of others?" Duty played a part, but there must also be love: "a genuine concern for people that makes their suffering difficult to ignore and their spiritual welfare too important to abandon."
- In verses 1-6 (last week) Paul spoke about the opposition he endured and the integrity of his preaching. Beginning in verse 7, he speaks about his affection for the Thessalonians themselves.
1. Ministry means allowing people to become dear to your heart (vv. 7-8)
> "But we proved to be gentle among you, as a nursing mother tenderly cares for her own children." (v. 7)
- We might describe Paul by his courage, his determination and his sacrifices on his missionary journeys. But Paul compares himself not to a soldier or a great public speaker, but to a mother caring for her infant.
- "A mother does not measure the value of caring for a child by how much recognition she receives." She gives herself because the child is dear to her.
- The Thessalonians weren't Paul's relatives or countrymen. In Acts 17 he reasoned in the synagogue that Christ had to suffer and rise from the dead; some believed, opposition arose, and Paul and Silas were forced to leave. His time there was brief, yet those people became precious to him.
- The gospel brings together people who otherwise would never have known one another, and "we belong to one another as members of the body of Christ."
- When someone in the congregation suffers, does it concern us? When a brother begins to drift away, do we reach out?
- A danger in ministry: becoming "so occupied with the work that we gradually lose sight of the people" the work is for. This applies to preachers, elders and members alike.
- John 13:34-35: "By this all men will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another." Not by beautiful buildings or the size of our gatherings.
2. Ministry means being willing to give yourself for the spiritual good of others (vv. 8-12)
- Paul imparted "not only the gospel of God, but also our own lives." The word for lives refers to their very selves.
- He was "well pleased" to do it. It was not a reluctant sacrifice, and caring for the Thessalonians was not an interruption of the work; it was part of the work.
- Giving ourselves means other people's needs will sometimes interrupt our plans, cost us time, and may bring disappointment, frustration and even heartbreak.
- 2 Corinthians 5:14: "For the love of Christ controls us."
- Paul worked night and day, supporting himself as a tentmaker, so he would not be a burden and nothing would hinder the gospel (v. 9).
- "How much of my own comfort am I willing to surrender for the spiritual good of somebody else?"
- Jesus and His disciples: for three years they walked with Him, yet they misunderstood Him, argued over who was greatest, and abandoned Him at the cross. In John 21 Jesus restored Peter, asking three times "Do you love Me?" and telling him to tend His sheep.
- Christians make mistakes. Is our commitment to one another strong enough to endure those difficulties?
- Paul was "exhorting and encouraging and imploring each one of you as a father would his own children" (vv. 11-12). Loving people does not mean avoiding difficult conversations; his purpose was always their spiritual good, that they would walk in a manner worthy of God.
- Ministry sometimes means comforting someone who is suffering, and sometimes helping a brother or sister see they are moving in a direction that can damage their relationship with God.
- The church can't become the spiritual family Paul describes through the efforts of the preacher alone. "It requires a congregation whose members have learned to give themselves to love one another."
3. Ministry means finding your greatest joy in seeing others grow in Christ (v. 13)
> "...when you received the word of God which you heard from us, you accepted it not as the word of men, but for what it really is, the word of God, which also performs its work in you who believe." (v. 13)
- Paul doesn't dwell on his sacrifices. He gives thanks for what happened in the lives of the Thessalonians.
- He sent Timothy to learn about their faith, and when Timothy returned with good news Paul was overwhelmed with gratitude. 1 Thessalonians 3:8: "For now we really live, if you stand firm in the Lord."
- "There is a particular kind of joy that comes from seeing someone grow in faith," like a teacher who spends years teaching children who don't always seem to be listening, until one day a young person begins asking serious questions about the gospel.
- When people around us grow stronger in Christ, the whole congregation is strengthened.
- What brings you the greatest joy in this congregation? Do we genuinely rejoice when we see someone becoming more faithful to Jesus Christ?
Conclusion
What does the ministry mean to me? What does it mean to you?
- Loving people enough to become invested in their lives.
- Making sacrifices for their spiritual good.
- Finding genuine joy when the word of God begins to bear fruit in them.
If you have never obeyed the gospel, consider coming to the Lord who died for our sins and rose again: confess your faith in Him and be baptized into His death, so that you may walk in newness of life.
For those who have been Christians for many years: Have we allowed the people of this congregation to become dear to us? Are we willing to give something of ourselves for their spiritual good? Do we find genuine joy in seeing others grow?