Wetin you carry? Hello dear you can't give what you don't have and you can't have what you don't give. So its okay to know what you want and also be ready to meet up with the standards. Ask yourself Wetin I carry?? Please be sure to carry all that you really want to see in that relationship .. Are you a taker or a giver!?? Are you a demolisher or a builder? Know what you carry and use the potentials well