In this episode of the Hip-Politics Podcast, host Cameron Calvin sits down with author Amira Barger, the author behind The Price of Nice, for a timely and unfiltered conversation about one of the most deeply ingrained social norms shaping our culture.

Together, they unpack why “niceness” is not the harmless virtue we’ve been taught to celebrate, but a powerful social construct that often silences dissent, prioritizes comfort over progress, and keeps systems of inequity firmly in place. Barger challenges the idea that being agreeable is the same as being good, while Cameron explores how these dynamics show up in politics, leadership, culture, and everyday power dynamics.

The discussion moves through the book’s four core dimensions—how we think, feel, act, and revisit our choices—offering listeners practical insight into how real change requires discomfort, honesty, and consistent action. From personal reflection to structural critique, this episode is a wake-up call for anyone who feels stuck in “good enough” and ready for more authentic conversations and meaningful transformation.

If you’ve ever felt the tension between being liked and doing what’s right, this episode will challenge you to rethink the true cost of staying nice—and what it takes to reclaim your voice.