Tad is still in recovery but we truly don't miss him, because we've got an incredible guest this week taking his place. Dee Salmin, author of It's Not Love, Actually, is our first guest to sear some rogue relationship-specific beefs like ghosting, the ick, and having to sleep in a bed with your partner. We decentred men so hard. Except in this episode description. - Ben.

Editor's Note: In addition to her work as an author, Dee Salmin is the host of triple j's podcast The Hook Up.

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• Hosted by Ben Ilobuchi, Izzy Wight and Tad Harawa
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