We've Got To Talk

We've Got To Talk

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We've Got To Talk episodes

  • Is Your News Diet All Junk Food? Mo News on Bias, AI & Trust

    Jolene used to start every morning with Fox News until her daughter, Bobbi told her to switch to Mo News, and now both of us listen. So we were thrilled to sit down with Mosheh Oinounou, founder of Mo News and former executive producer of the CBS Evening News, and Jill Wagner, the managing editor and co-host of the Mo News Podcast. They tell the origin story of Mo News, which began as Covid lockdown-era Instagram Stories sent to friends and family and grew into a daily podcast, newsletter and team of more than a dozen.

    We dig into the state of the media, with Mo making the case both for and against legacy media. Outlets like CBS and the Washington Post still have the resources to hold power to account, but the business model is breaking as advertisers move to Google and Facebook and AI summaries eat the clicks. Mosheh shares that Americans rank last in the Reuters global survey on trust in the media, and he and Jill explain how Mo News tries to earn trust by answering questions, admitting mistakes, and trying to equally upset both sides.

    We talk about news diets, media bias and how stories get picked. Mosheh explains why he tells students to treat news like a diet, with some chocolate but plenty of broccoli, and why the goal of much cable news is to make you angry. We also get a behind-the-scenes look at how the team decides what to cover, from the Russian plague story to why Washington is more Veep than House of Cards, plus honest feedback from us on coverage that went too far, and a frank conversation about newsroom politics and Gen Z.

    CHAPTER MARKERS:

    00:00 Introduction

    02:36 Mo News Origin Story

    07:31 Future Of Legacy Media

    10:28 AI Eating Media

    15:25 Americans Trust Media Last

    19:37 Your News Diet

    23:36 Fox And MSNOW Experiment

    27:40 Foreign Coverage Blind Spots

    30:15 What Makes A Story

    34:44 Washington Is Veep

    36:19 AI Warning Signs

    38:04 Armchair Detective Fatigue

    48:00 Newsroom Bias And Gen Z

    53:55 Good For The Soul

    57:44 Where To Find Mo News

    RESOURCES MENTIONED

    Mo News: https://www.mo.news/

    Mo News Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mosheh

    Mo News YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/moshehnews

    Mo News Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MoshehNews

    Mo News X: https://x.com/Mosheh

    Mo News TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@mosheh

    Good for the Soul: Puzzles and Pick Up the Phone!

    WGTT LINKS:

    Instagram https://www.instagram.com/wevegottotalk/

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WeveGotToTalk

    Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/weve-got-to-talk/id1797423701

    Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0qJVgTvjciUffRmoUienx2

    WGTT Website: https://www.wevegottotalk.com/

    How to find Nicole https://nicolefonarow.com/

    How to find Jolene https://dibledough.com/

    1 hr 7 min
  • Midterm Predictions: Who Deserves Your Vote

    The USA 2026 Midterms are coming, and it feels like the whole country is being held hostage by political ads. They are everywhere, and a lot of them aren’t designed to inform you; they’re designed to polarize you. Jolene and I talk about how the media cycle shapes your nervous system, why constant outrage makes us less informed, and how both parties use fear to rally their base and keep voters reactive.

    We also get into polling, because at this point it can feel like a daily anxiety machine. “The race is tightening.” “Momentum is shifting.” But who actually answers polls anymore, and what do small sample sizes really tell us in a country this big? We unpack why midterm election polls often create more noise than clarity, and how they can push people into gloating, spiralling, or checking out before voting even starts.

    On a personal level, we talk about the very real frustration of choosing between candidates you don’t love. In New York’s 10th Congressional District, I’ve had that “lesser of two evils” feeling more than once, and Jolene’s point is simple: this isn’t just a liberal problem or a conservative problem. It’s a system problem, and the system rarely rewards candidates trying to serve the middle during US elections.

    We share how we’re shifting from fear to facts with grounded sources like Gabe Fleisher’s Wake Up to Politics https://www.youtube.com/@wakeuptopolitics , and why it still matters to vote even if you have to hold your nose. We also talk about tools like Bridgegrades.org , following the money, and slowing down on purpose so you can make a clear-headed choice instead of getting played by the outrage machine.

    CHAPTER MARKERS:

    00:00 Introduction

    01:41 Why Polls Feel Useless

    07:52 Are Any Races Competitive

    10:29 Predictions House vs Senate

    10:55 Attack Ads Get Ugly

    12:40 Money Flooding Elections

    16:15 Voting Early and Ballot Confusion

    17:39 Judges and Local Races Matter

    20:04 Tools for Smarter Voting

    24:43 Big States To Watch

    25:12 Cities Poverty And DSA

    29:31 Minnesota Senate Spotlight

    30:32 Polls Margin Of Error

    32:08 Election Night Survival Tips

    RESOURCES MENTIONED

    Gabe Fleisher's Substack Wake Up to Politics: https://open.substack.com/pub/wakeuptopolitics/p/everyone-thinks-theyre-going-to-win?r=n7so4&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=email

    Gabe Fleisher’s YouTube Wake up to Politics:

    https://www.youtube.com/@wakeuptopolitics

    We Made This Political Podcast: https://wemadethispolitical.substack.com/p/ep-68-gabe-fleisher-on-saving-political

    Isaac Saul:The Dark Side Behind Fear Based Political Ads https://youtu.be/vbMCeI19PPE?si=vaIQimN8HPU-7zJ7

    Tangle: https://www.instagram.com/p/Deu29OvDw1m/?img_index=3

    Bridge Grades: https://www.bridgegrades.org/

    Brad Porteus: https://youtu.be/g4kH4AFXqNs?si=7NtBFT4VRICC7SmZ

    Marc Goldwein: https://youtu.be/PH8naCqamcE?si=HV05zuJ7-4G_B_wm

    Watch Midterms Live here: https://www.youtube.com/@MoNews

    City Cast Salt Lake City podcast: https://saltlake.citycast.fm/

    LINKS:

    Instagram https://www.instagram.com/wevegottotalk/

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WeveGotToTalk

    Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/weve-got-to-talk/id1797423701

    Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0qJVgTvjciUffRmoUienx2

    How to find Nicole https://nicolefonarow.com/

    How to find Jolene https://dibledough.com/

    39 min
  • New Pluralists Is Betting $40 Million that Americans Can Still Get Along | Liz Vogel

    “Underneath every complaint is a hope.” That line from Liz Vogel stopped Jolene and I in our tracks, because once you hear it, you see it everywhere. The angry post, the rant at the school meeting, the neighbor who won’t stop talking about how everything’s gone downhill often isn’t just complaining. It’s someone asking, in the only way they know how, to be seen, to be heard, and to feel like someone actually cares.

    We sat down with Liz Vogel, Executive Director of New Pluralists, to talk about bridging divides in a politically divided America without trying to change each other’s minds. Liz is also training as a death doula, and she explains why that work connects so naturally to pluralism, because at the end of life, what people want most is to be understood on their own terms. That same need sits underneath so much of our conflict right now.

    Liz breaks down what New Pluralists actually does: it’s a funder collaborative investing in local organizations across the US that are doing the real work of building cooperation, reducing isolation, and helping communities stay in relationship even when they disagree. This is about depolarization, social cohesion, and rebuilding trust, not creating a country where everyone thinks the same or forcing a “mushy middle” where convictions don’t matter.

    We talk about pluralism as a practical way to live together in a diverse society while still solving problems together. The goal isn’t to win arguments or convert people; it’s to humanize each other again and stop treating the person across from you like a symbol.

    CHAPTER MARKERS:

    00:00 Introduction

    03:24 What New Pluralists Does

    05:24 How Funding Works

    09:26 Cross Partisan Grantees

    16:27 Defining Pluralism

    23:48 Dehumanization And Distrust

    27:10 Death Doula Lens

    36:15 Grief And Rituals

    41:29 From Grief To Grievance

    44:19 New Pluralists Mission

    49:43 Inside The Grant Process

    55:19 Pluralism And Hope Practice

    RESOURCES MENTIONED

    New Pluralists Website: https://newpluralists.org/

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/newpluralists/posts/?feedView=all

    LinkedIn Liz: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lizvogel23/

    Liz's Good for the Soul: https://goodreads.com/book/show/43708884.The_Boy__the_Mole__the_Fox_and_the_Horse

    LINKS:

    Instagram https://www.instagram.com/wevegottotalk/

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WeveGotToTalk

    Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/weve-got-to-talk/id1797423701

    Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0qJVgTvjciUffRmoUienx2

    How to find Nicole https://nicolefonarow.com/

    How to find Jolene https://dibledough.com/

    1 hr 6 min
  • We Spend More on Interest Than Defense: We’re In A Debt Crisis | Marc Goldwein

    Jolene and I have been trying to work out whether the US is actually in a financial emergency, or whether we’re just stuck in the usual loop of scary headlines, charts, and people yelling on cable news. Because after a while you either spiral or you go numb, and neither one helps you understand what’s real. So we spoke to economist Marc Goldwein, and instead of drama, he gave us the calm, numbers-based version, which was somehow more unsettling.

    Marc’s view is blunt: the US is in the worst financial shape it’s ever been in, at least in the ways that matter for what comes next. He points to 10-year and 30-year Treasury yields being the highest since the early 2000s, which matters because higher interest rates plus massive national debt means the cost of servicing that debt starts eating everything else. It’s like carrying a credit card balance you can’t pay down, then watching the interest rate jump while you try to keep living your life as normal.

    The part that really lands is this: US interest payments now exceed national defense spending. That’s not a talking point, it’s a budget reality, and it changes what the government can afford to do. Marc also explains that while the national debt is close to its World War II level, the interest burden is worse, with interest as a share of the economy roughly doubling. So even if the debt number feels historically familiar, the pressure it creates today is not.

    Then we get to the obvious question: if it’s this bad, why aren’t we fixing it? Marc’s answer is basically incentives. Politicians get rewarded for cutting taxes and handing out benefits, and punished for asking people to pay more or accept less. Add in the time-horizon problem, where leaders focus on the next election instead of the next decade, and you get a system that keeps kicking the can until it turns into a wrecking ball. The takeaway is uncomfortable but simple: this isn’t only a politician problem, it’s also a voter problem, and if we don’t face it now, we’re handing future generations a country where more and more money goes to interest and less goes to anything that actually makes life better.

    CHAPTER MARKERS:

    00:00 Introduction

    03:09 Why Debt Keeps Rising

    04:17 Social Security Clock

    06:47 Explaining The Trust Fund

    12:22 Simpson Bowles Lessons

    19:11 Two Big New Ideas

    23:27 AARP And Political Will

    27:00 What It Takes To Reform

    29:21 Commissions Versus Regular Order

    32:54 Why AARP Has Power

    34:49 Debt Versus Deficit

    41:12 Fixes Healthcare Waste

    45:04 Tax Reform And Revenue

    51:48 Your Civic Assignment

    53:56 Where To Find CRFB

    RESOURCES MENTIONED

    Committee For A Responsible Federal Budget: https://www.crfb.org/

    Marc's Good for the Soul: https://marthastable.org/

    LINKS:

    Instagram https://www.instagram.com/wevegottotalk/

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WeveGotToTalk

    Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/weve-got-to-talk/id1797423701

    Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0qJVgTvjciUffRmoUienx2

    How to find Nicole https://nicolefonarow.com/

    How to find Jolene https://dibledough.com/

    1 hr 1 min
  • Tribalism Is Destroying American Politics | Lura Forcum

    Most of us don’t want “our side” to win. We want the country to work, with less chaos, less political theater, and fewer people getting rich off outrage while nothing gets fixed. We’re joined by Lura Forcum, a consumer and social psychologist who studies the human dynamics underneath politics, identity, belonging, and why we get so weird around people who disagree with us.

    Lura breaks down why “tribalism” isn’t just a buzzword. It’s the system underneath the system, and the real danger isn’t bickering; it’s dehumanization. Once the other side feels like an existential threat, we stop having policy conversations and start living in a survival story, and you can’t govern well from that place.

    We also talk about competitive politics versus tribal politics, and why purity tests on both sides reward warriors instead of statesmen. Lura explains how parties stop listening to voters and start dictating terms, and why policy so often gets made without talking to the people who actually live under it.

    If you’re disillusioned, tired, or waiting for the perfect candidate, Lura’s message is simple: vote anyway. Vote as an independent thinker, show up for primaries, and reward decency and public service over performative outrage. Her final assignment is surprisingly wholesome and honestly needed right now: have a potluck, break bread, and rebuild community face to face.

    CHAPTER MARKERS:

    00:00 Introduction

    04:15 Tribal vs Competitive Politics

    07:44 Warriors and Purity Tests

    15:29 Rebuilding Civic Culture

    18:15 Entitlement Reform Reality Check

    22:11 Why Parties Ignore Voters

    26:41 Independents and Real Competition

    35:46 Why Primaries Matter

    38:53 Decency Over Policy Purity

    44:03 Social Media and Tribal Rage

    48:05 Potluck as Civic Medicine

    RESOURCES MENTIONED

    Where to Find Lura:

    https://www.linkedin.com/in/luraforcum/

    https://www.facebook.com/lura.forcum

    https://substack.com/@luraforcum

    https://www.instagram.com/luraforcum/

    https://www.youtube.com/@LuraForcum_HowtoHuman

    Lura’s Podcast:

    https://wemadethispolitical.substack.com/

    https://www.youtube.com/@WeMadeThisPolitical

    LINKS:

    Instagram https://www.instagram.com/wevegottotalk/

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WeveGotToTalk

    Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/weve-got-to-talk/id1797423701

    Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0qJVgTvjciUffRmoUienx2

    How to find Nicole https://nicolefonarow.com/

    How to find Jolene https://dibledough.com/

    59 min
  • "Bridgers vs. Dividers: The Report Card That Could Change the Midterms "

    Most of us don’t actually want “our side” to win. We want the country to work, with less chaos, less political theatre, and fewer people getting rich off outrage while nothing gets fixed.

    This week we welcomed Brad Porteus from Bridge Grades back onto the podcast, and his idea is refreshingly simple. Bridge Grades is a congressional report card that doesn’t measure ideology, it measures collaboration. It uses nonpartisan, third-party data to score how lawmakers govern, so you can get a clearer read on who builds across the aisle and who fuels division.

    What hit us most is how much this challenges the way we’re trained to vote. Most people don’t vote based on effectiveness; they vote based on identity, fear, habit, or revenge, and if you’re deeply loyal to a party, a report card probably won’t change your mind. The bigger opportunity is everyone else, especially the exhausted middle and the millions of eligible Americans who didn’t vote last election because they don’t trust anyone and don’t see the point.

    If you’re curious, use Bridge Grades as a second lens before the next election. Look up your lawmakers, notice what happens in your own head when you see a grade you didn’t expect, and ask what we’re rewarding as a culture. Because if we keep voting like it’s a tribal loyalty test, we’re going to keep getting tribal outcomes, and we’ll all keep sitting here wondering why nothing works.

    CHAPTER MARKERS:

    00:00 Introduction

    00:21 Meet Brad and Bridge Grades

    01:49 How the Scoring Works

    07:29 Legislative Metrics Explained

    11:22 Gaming the Bipartisan Score

    13:47 Performative Bridging Debate

    17:37 Exhausted Middle and Independents

    20:29 Bridgers at Risk in Swing Seats

    28:26 Roasting Government Dysfunction

    31:41 Texas Race Trust Issues

    34:14 Breaking Tribal Partisanship

    36:32 Reaching the Disengaged Millions

    38:05 Shift from Party to Ideology

    RESOURCES MENTIONED:

    Brad's Good for the Soul:

    Otis Cutts Old Music Friday: https://www.instagram.com/owencutts/?hl=en

    LINKS:

    Instagram https://www.instagram.com/wevegottotalk/

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WeveGotToTalk

    Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/weve-got-to-talk/id1797423701

    Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0qJVgTvjciUffRmoUienx2

    How to find Nicole https://nicolefonarow.com/

    How to find Jolene https://dibledough.com/

    50 min
  • What If We Replaced Politicians With Regular People Picked by Lottery?

    We’ve lost a lot of trust in politicians in America, and it’s not hard to see why. Politics feels like a permanent campaign where leaders are performing, fundraising, and protecting their careers while the real problems keep getting worse.

    Our guest is Adam Cronkright, creator of the film Goodbye Politicians Hello Democracy, which explores a bold alternative to the current political system. Adam’s idea is simple but disruptive: replace career politicians with ordinary citizens selected by lottery, supported with experts and staff, and asked to make decisions on behalf of their communities. It’s a conversation about democratic lotteries, citizen assemblies, and what “government by the people” could actually mean in practice.

    We talk about why elections often produce a political class instead of real representation, and how incentives like party loyalty, media attention, and fundraising have turned politics into theatre. Adam shares what happened when 30 regular people in Michigan were selected during 2020 to work through pandemic decisions together, and why good faith disagreement becomes possible when nobody is angling for re-election or scoring points for social media.

    If you’re tired of political polarisation, the two-party system, and the feeling that you’re just a spectator in your own democracy, this episode offers a hopeful, practical reframe. It’s about accountability, trust, civic participation, and whether citizens could govern more effectively than professional politicians.

    CHAPTER MARKERS:

    00:00 Introduction

    00:22 Meet Adam Cronkright

    05:19 Why Make This Film

    07:18 Democratic Lottery Explained

    09:17 How Selection Works

    14:07 Where Democracy Goes Next

    18:10 A Post Party System

    22:25 Pushback and Corruption

    27:34 Extremes and Being Heard

    30:19 How to Watch the Film

    RESOURCES MENTIONED:

    Goodbye Politicians, Hello Democracy: https://goodbyepoliticians.movie/

    Adam's Good for the Soul: My Unsung Hero podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/my-unsung-hero/id1586880312

    https://open.spotify.com/show/2lBDAGE8UkizPEC2ZjmgaP

    LINKS:

    Instagram https://www.instagram.com/wevegottotalk/

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WeveGotToTalk

    Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/weve-got-to-talk/id1797423701

    Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0qJVgTvjciUffRmoUienx2

    How to find Nicole https://nicolefonarow.com/

    How to find Jolene https://dibledough.com/

    40 min
  • How to Talk to “The Enemy” with Larry Rosen

    Politics can feel like a loyalty test now. Like you are either on the right team, or you are a threat. In this conversation with Larry Rosen, attorney turned mediator and host of The Enemies Project YouTube docuseries, we talk about what happens when people stop seeing each other as humans and start treating politics like a team sport.

    Larry’s work sits right in the middle of the biggest problems in political polarization and social division: we assume intention, we fill in the blanks with the worst story, and we turn disagreement into moral war. We unpack why conflict is rarely just about the surface issue, how “enemy making” works, and why curiosity feels like betrayal when the nervous system is in threat mode.

    We also get into Larry’s approach to depolarization and conflict resolution, including rapport-building, extreme perspective taking, and the moment that changes everything: helping people understand what the other person is trying to protect. It is not about forcing agreement. It is about making it harder to keep the other side as a cartoon, and easier to have hard conversations without dehumanising each other.

    If you care about bridging the political divide, civil discourse, and how to talk to people you disagree with without damaging your relationships beyond repair, this one will land. It is a reminder that healing is not soft, and it is not naive; it is one of the only paths out of the loop we are stuck in.

    CHAPTER MARKERS:

    00:00 Introduction

    00:22 Meet Larry Rosen

    02:50 From Lawyer to Mediator

    05:43 Why Enemies Project Started

    12:20 Enemies Project Format

    15:49 Extreme Perspective Taking

    19:37 Healthy Conflict Zone

    23:33 Platforming and Safety

    30:38 Casting Real Enemies

    34:29 Why Activists Fight

    35:39 Low Empathy And AI

    42:22 Future Of Enemies Project

    RESOURCES MENTIONED:

    https://www.enemiesproject.org/

    Larry's Good for the Soul:

    https://youtube.com/shorts/aFuuyibkx1Q?si=MhVJvWhH5SMGPDdb

    LINKS:

    On Instagram https://www.instagram.com/wevegottotalk/

    On YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WeveGotToTalk

    On Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/weve-got-to-talk/id1797423701

    On Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0qJVgTvjciUffRmoUienx2

    How to find Nicole https://nicolefonarow.com/

    How to find Jolene https://dibledough.com/

    58 min
  • Liberal and Conservative: 5 Questions We've Always Wanted to Ask

    We are back in the Ozarks for our second annual in-person recording at Jolene’s house, and we decided to ask each other a handful of questions we have thought about asking, but never have.

    We start with something deceptively simple: why Jolene hides how funny (and sometimes crass) she is on the podcast. It turns into a bigger conversation about authenticity, self-censoring, and how exhausting it is to try to be inoffensive all the time. In a culture where politics feels performative and everyone is bracing for outrage, being real can feel risky, but it is also what makes people relatable.

    From there we get into the harder stuff: what Nicole struggles to defend about the Democratic Party, and what Republican beliefs she actually agrees with. We talk about political extremes, the national debt, homelessness, cost of living, and why so many people can “smell” consultant language and talking points a mile away. It is less about scoring points and more about thinking clearly, even when your own side is messy.

    If you are tired of political polarization, tribalism, and the feeling that every conversation is a loyalty test, this episode is a reminder that there is another way through, and it starts with staying human long enough to listen.

    CHAPTER MARKERS:

    00:00 Introduction

    00:35 Five Questions Challenge

    01:07 Why Not More Humor

    05:44 Democrats Hard To Defend

    11:13 Holding Back On Air

    15:35 Common Ground With GOP

    17:27 Questioning Beliefs ALICE

    25:13 Three Laws As President

    26:47 Voter ID Accountability

    27:14 Reining In Executive Orders

    28:26 Stocks PACs and Lobbyists

    30:27 Why AI Feels Dangerous

    35:02 Everyday AI and Kids

    37:27 Dream Administration Picks

    43:25 Cross Party Leadership Idea

    44:37 Personal Secrets and Shyness

    47:07 Pickup Truck Life Lesson

    RESOURCES MENTIONED:

    Larry Rosen of The Enemies Project: https://www.enemiesproject.org/

    WGTT United for Alice episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XWR77jzh1aQ

    Gwen Stefani- Hollerback Girl: https://youtu.be/Kgjkth6BRRY?si=p_xkfcscFsHegSD4

    Patsy Cline- Crazy: https://youtu.be/MbnrdCS57d0?si=H7N6gdb9DX4JBp3m

    Dolly Parton-Jolene: https://youtu.be/Ixrje2rXLMA?si=k6qzW_ix_5MwiX9G

    Ray LaMontagne- Jolene: https://youtu.be/YTjKotAu4xQ?si=VX_9eYc6Xxd3GLTB

    Cruise Inn Throttle Down: https://cruise-inns.com/

    Congress Stock Trading: https://www.quiverquant.com/congresstrading/

    Van Jones interview with Bill Gates: https://vanjones.substack.com/p/my-bill-gates-interview-on-ai-global?r=n7so4&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web×tamp=1.2

    Brooke L. Rollins, Secretary of Agriculture: https://www.usda.gov/our-agency/about-usda/our-secretary

    Senator Jeff Merkley: https://www.merkley.senate.gov/

    Governor Mikie Sherill: https://www.nj.gov/governor/

    Courage Can Save Us Book: https://couragecansaveus.com/

    With Honor: https://withhonor.org/

    Rahm Emanuel: https://www.instagram.com/rahmemanuel/?hl=en

    Sarah Longwell of The Bulwark: https://www.longwellpartners.com/sarah-longwell/

    LINKS:

    On Instagram https://www.instagram.com/wevegottotalk/

    On YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WeveGotToTalk

    On Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/weve-got-to-talk/id1797423701

    On Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0qJVgTvjciUffRmoUienx2

    How to find Nicole https://nicolefonarow.com/

    How to find Jolene https://dibledough.com/

    54 min
  • Liberal and Conservative Compare: Fox News vs MSNOW

    A year and a half ago, when we started our podcast, Jolene and I had an uncomfortable realization. We weren’t just “watching the news”; we were watching news that already agreed with us. Jolene had her conservative media, I had my liberal media, and even when we landed on the same basic facts, the emotional tone was completely different depending on what we’d been consuming. Same country, same week, two totally different versions of reality shaped by cable news and political commentary.

    So we cleaned up our media diet and started looking for sources that show more than one angle, like Ground News, Tangle, Mo News, 1440, and Straight Arrow News. We wanted to be less easily manipulated by algorithms and outrage, and better able to have civil conversations across political differences. If you’ve been searching for “balanced news sources,” “media bias chart,” or “how to avoid political echo chambers,” this is exactly the road we started walking.

    Then my husband Josh, suggested a new experiment: a full week of Fox News and MSNOW (full immersion, no cherry-picked clips). I know it’s a shock to hear this, but it did not make us smarter. It made us anxious. Both networks seemed to run the same play, just with different villains: keep you slightly scared, slightly angry, and just certain enough that you don’t go looking elsewhere. It wasn’t “here’s what happened,” it was “here’s what happened, here’s who to blame, and here’s why you should be worried.”

    What really stung is how normal it feels when you’re in it daily. It feels like being responsible, like staying informed, like doing your civic duty. But after a week, we could see the pattern clearly: less clarity, more defensiveness, more judgement, and more confidence about things we hadn’t actually researched. We talk about how 24-hour news cycles turn commentary into the product, why outrage is profitable, and what to do instead, including tools like Ad Fontes Media, reading across sources, and the simplest antidote of all: get back into real life, talk to actual humans, and take action in your community instead of marinating in rage.

    CHAPTER MARKERS:

    00:00 Introduction

    01:36 One Week Fox vs MSNBC

    02:09 Three Takeaways From Jolene

    04:05 Nicole’s Takeaways

    06:33 Bias Charts And Better Sources

    07:39 Big Stories Compared

    09:58 Spin On Trump And Iran

    14:07 Quit Doomscrolling All Day

    19:59 How To Research Without Bias

    25:00 Do Something With The News

    RESOURCES MENTIONED:

    We've Got To Talk Swamping News Sources for 10 days episode: https://youtu.be/5wtPeP8XwAk?si=pzJ5Ef_KL8gz5Yaw

    Fox News Hourly Update: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/fox-news-hourly-update/id209991975

    Morning Joe podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/morning-joe/id974299441

    Fox News: https://www.foxnews.com/

    MSNOW: https://www.ms.now/

    Ad Fontes Media Bias Chart: https://app.adfontesmedia.com/chart/interactive?utm_source=adfontesmedia&utm_medium=website

    Tangle News: https://www.readtangle.com/

    Mo News: https://www.mo.news/

    Straight Arrow News: https://san.com/

    Ground News: https://ground.news/

    1440: https://join1440.com/

    Isaac Saul of Tangle Ted Talk: https://youtu.be/543mYKKh1EE?si=aEscLTxkXbGx39IR

    LINKS:

    On Instagram https://www.instagram.com/wevegottotalk/

    On YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WeveGotToTalk

    On Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/weve-got-to-talk/id1797423701

    On Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0qJVgTvjciUffRmoUienx2

    How to find Nicole https://nicolefonarow.com/

    How to find Jolene https://dibledough.com/

    36 min

About We've Got To Talk

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Our story begins in the halls of the University of Iowa, go Hawks! It was there that two seemingly different paths intersected and a friendship blossomed. Despite our different upbringings—Jolene in little Pleasantville, Iowa, and me, Nicole, just across the Golden Gate Bridge in the bustling Bay Area—we became fast friends. And here we are, almost 40 years later, living in a world that often seems intent on drawing lines in the sand and choosing sides.