Our House with The Smylies

We've Hosted 4 Au Pairs. Here's the Honest Truth


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We've hosted four au pairs over the years, and in this episode we tell the honest truth about what it's really like to invite one into your home. Our former au pair Judith lived with us for two years, flew back from Spain to surprise our boys, and the reveal went viral with millions of views. She sits down with us to talk through the good, the hard, and the parts nobody warns you about, whether you're a parent thinking about hiring an au pair or a nanny, or a young person wondering if becoming an au pair is right for you.


If you're weighing the au pair program, you'll hear how the matching process actually works, what it costs, the difference between an au pair and a nanny, the horror stories to watch out for, and how to know if it's the right fit for your family. And if you're thinking about becoming an au pair yourself, Judith shares exactly what she was scared of, what surprised her, and the advice that made her take the leap.


This is a real conversation about opening your home, building trust, and how someone who starts as a stranger can become family for life.


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CHAPTERS

00:00 Judith reacts to the viral video

01:04 The au pair who became family

03:32 Judith’s dream to come to America

06:22 Her mom prayed for this family

08:39 Trusting an 18-year-old with three boys

10:41 She was never just hired help

14:20 When Judith first felt at home

24:24 Boundaries and empathy

28:49 The nightly routine that mattered

31:32 What changed when God became central

35:39 Parenting so kids want to come back

37:52 Letting kids be who they are

38:48 The story behind the viral video

40:52 Why the video touched millions

45:33 Advice for taking the leap

47:40 Final thoughts


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Our House with The SmyliesBy Jason Smylie and Malia Smylie