After scaring away her last 3 matches, Ross decides to dial down her sassy texting style and wonders if she’s being too quick to judge and ghost someone.  While Joey discovers that, though frustrated with the lack of sexual chemistry on FaceTime, it’s actually a plus because the physical distance has kept her from sucking face with men despite glaring red flags.  On the topic of red flags, they both review their list of non-negotiables (Ross's consists of a succinct one she comes up with on the spot, while Joey reveals a four page, single-spaced manifest compiled over years) to determine what define actual deal breakers versus nice-to-haves.