September 04, 2025

What Do You Want Your Story to Be? (Rebroadcast)

23 minutes

In this episode, Angela encourages listeners to reflect on their lives and consider whether they are living with purpose. She shares an unusual obituary as a starting point for reflection and challenges listeners to envision their own lives and legacies, urging them to take steps to align their actions with their desired stories.

Key Takeaways 💡

Reflecting on others' lives, such as through obituaries, can provide valuable insights into our own lives and help us consider our purpose. The story of Pat Stocks, a 94-year-old woman whose obituary was shared on the podcast, serves as a reminder that life is short and encourages listeners to think about what they want their own stories to be.

It's important to periodically assess whether you are living the life you truly want and to align your actions with your values and goals. Many people get caught up in the busyness of life and fail to pause and reflect on whether they are living with purpose, often ignoring the signs that they may not be on the right path.

To gain clarity on your life's purpose, imagine yourself in your favorite place during your final days, looking back on your life and consider what you want your story to be. Then, assess whether you are currently living that story and identify any areas where you need to make changes.

We offer a tool called the "LifeScore Card" on our website (https://www.kennedy-financial.com/lifescore-card) to help individuals assess different areas of their lives and identify areas for improvement. This tool can provide a more detailed and nuanced understanding of how well you are living in alignment with your desired story.

Most people only get one chance to raise their kids, enjoy their grandkids, and experience retirement, so it's crucial to live with intention and purpose. Instead of simply going through the motions, strive to live a life that reflects your values and passions.

Writing your own obituary can be a powerful exercise to gain clarity on your priorities and identify areas where you may want to make changes in your life. This exercise can reveal discrepancies between what you consider important and how you are actually spending your time and energy.

The poem "The Dash" by Linda Ellis emphasizes that the most important aspect of a person's life is not their possessions or accomplishments, but how they lived and loved during the time represented by the dash between their birth and death dates. Listeners should reflect on whether they would be proud of how they spent their dash.

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