It's so easy to demonize and write off people like Playboys or people who are very Promiscuous, but what if instead of labeling them and putting yourself on a pedestal, you extract the lessons they provided for you instead? What if we aren't meant to just put people in a box and assume they're unlovable because they're struggling with deep intimacy?

We go DEEP on this episode!

I had to ask myself:

-What was it within ME called in this kind of relationship dynamic?

-What parts of me were avoiding deeper intimacy?

-How was I still emotionally unavailable during this time of my life?

-Why was I seeking connection mostly through physical touch but ignoring my softer side?

-What did I need to learn from it?

-What kind of liberation or exploration did I want to experience (that I couldn't in a more conventional, "vanilla" relationship)?

-How did it EXPAND me?

-How did it open my heart?

Yes, there was pain...and there was also so much growth, too.

For me, experimenting with open relationships and dating some real-life Playboys actually taught me more about trauma, attachment issues, self-worth, sexual energy, power dynamics, emotional intelligence, unconditional love, shadow work and my DEEPEST heart desires than almost anything else in my life.

To embody more of your Sexual POWER, you've got to move through the energies of fear, guilt or shame around it, too. 

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