She built a movement empowering girls in sport.
But at 30, Holly Bailey didn’t feel enough herself.
In this powerful episode of What I Wish I Knew at 30, host Fran Harper sits down with Holly Bailey, CEO & Founder of Play Like a Girl, to talk about identity, self-worth, sales, leadership, and what really drives burnout in ambitious women.

🎯 What You’ll Learn in This Episode
• Building confidence while secretly feeling “not enough”
• Why passion without sales doesn’t build a business
• Leaving a stable career to follow your purpose
• The mindset shift that changed everything
• Learning to ask for help as a founder
• Separating your identity from your business
• Reclaiming the phrase “Play Like a Girl”
• Why busyness is not success

⏱ Timestamps
00:00 – What if your struggles are setting you up?
01:48 – How Play Like a Girl really started
04:24 – “If that’s not true… what else isn’t true?”
08:58 – Leaving Deloitte to start the business
13:09 – The moment everything felt empty
15:18 – Realizing she was building everyone else’s dream
17:00 – Busyness vs real success
20:30 – Not-enoughness driving overwork
23:09 – Believing she had to do it alone
25:27 – Learning money the hard way
30:51 – “Play Like a Girl is a bad brand name.”
33:14 – “It’s not about me.” (Sales mindset shift)
36:53 – What she’d tell her 30-year-old self
41:36 – Why mindset is malleable
45:53 – You don’t have to be tough all the time
51:58 – Start immediately. One small step.
56:04 – “This too shall pass.”

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What if the struggle you're in right now is actually setting you up for the life you'll be proud of in 10 years?

In this powerful episode of What I Wish I Knew at 30, host Fran Harper sits down with Sarah Exton, Managing Director of Creative Care Company, to talk about career pivots, burnout, late autism diagnosis, and building a purpose-driven business in the disability support sector.

Sarah shares what it was really like to:

- Be diagnosed autistic as an adult

- Leave a corporate career to enter the NDIS and disability services space

- Build a business while working a demanding executive role

- Navigate leadership as a neurodivergent woman

- Redefine success beyond money and titles

If you’re building a business, navigating a career transition, questioning your purpose, or wondering whether it’s too late to change direction — this conversation is for you.

🎯 What You’ll Learn in This Episode

• Corporate burnout vs purpose-driven leadership
• Autism diagnosis in adulthood
• Women in leadership and self-belief
• Leaving a stable job to start a business
• Building resilience during uncertainty
• The pressure of your 30s
• Neurodivergence in the workplace
• Why impact matters more than income
• How to back yourself when no one else does

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In this episode, Fran Harper and Greg Clark explore how career uncertainty in your 30s can quietly shape long-term success. From self-doubt and relocation to leadership, discipline, and resilience, this conversation dives deep into the mindset required to build a lasting career in media, sport, and life.

Greg shares how preparation, integrity, and surrounding yourself with the right people created opportunities that lasted decades, from calling rugby test matches and Olympic Games to building a 25-year career at Fox Sports. This episode is a powerful reflection on hard work, personal responsibility, reputation, and staying grounded under pressure.

If you're navigating career pressure, leadership growth, or wondering whether you're on the right path in your 30s, this conversation will remind you that longevity isn’t accidental, it’s earned.

🎯 What You’ll Learn in This Episode

Why preparation builds long-term confidence
How reputation compounds over decades
Why never burning bridges protects your future
How surrounding yourself with high achievers elevates you
Why humility sustains success longer than talent alone
How to stay resilient during uncertain career phases
Why “stick to the runway” is powerful life advice

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In this episode, Fran Harper and Chip Dolan discuss how today's struggles might be setting the stage for a fulfilling future. They explore valuable "life lessons" and the essence of "personal growth," emphasizing the importance of a "mindset shift" to navigate challenges. This conversation offers insights into achieving "mental wellbeing" and fostering "emotional healing" through connection and embracing change.

Chip’s story shows how curiosity, adaptability, and community can quietly shape a life of purpose, even when it doesn’t look “successful” on the surface. If you’re a creative, founder, leader, or someone feeling stuck between comfort and growth, this episode will change how you think about career, connection, and what really matters.

🎯 What You’ll Learn in This Episode

Why versatility creates long-term career security

How creative dissatisfaction can be a signal, not a failure

Why relationships matter more than talent alone

How financial pressure shapes life decisions

Why staying connected prevents isolation

How redefining success brings peace and freedom

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Build resilience

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Redefine success

Create a life with purpose, balance & impact

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In this episode, Fran Harper and Chip Dolan discuss how today's struggles might be setting the stage for a fulfilling future. They explore valuable "life lessons" and the essence of "personal growth," emphasizing the importance of a "mindset shift" to navigate challenges. This conversation offers insights into achieving "mental wellbeing" and fostering "emotional healing" through connection and embracing change.

Chip’s story shows how curiosity, adaptability, and community can quietly shape a life of purpose, even when it doesn’t look “successful” on the surface. If you’re a creative, founder, leader, or someone feeling stuck between comfort and growth, this episode will change how you think about career, connection, and what really matters.

🎯 What You’ll Learn in This Episode

Why versatility creates long-term career security

How creative dissatisfaction can be a signal, not a failure

Why relationships matter more than talent alone

How financial pressure shapes life decisions

Why staying connected prevents isolation

How redefining success brings peace and freedom

🌟 About the Host – Fran Harper

🌐 Learn more about Fran Harper:

https://www.franharpercoaching.com/about

📧 Contact Fran Harper: [email protected]

💡 Fran Harper empowers leaders, creatives, and high performers to design lives aligned with clarity, purpose, and wellbeing. With decades of experience in communication, leadership, and mindset work, she blends strategic insight with deep personal transformation.

💫 About the Channel – What I Wish I Knew at 30

🎥 What I Wish I Knew at 30 is where real stories meet honest reflection.

Hosted by Fran Harper, Life Architect, entrepreneur, and mindset coach, this channel helps you:

Build resilience

Navigate change

Redefine success

Create a life with purpose, balance & impact

🌎 Connect with Fran Harper

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What if the moment that stopped you… was the moment that changed everything?

In this episode of What I Wish I Knew at 30, I sit down with Samantha Tait, founder of BRND Group, to unpack how a broken leg, a marriage breakdown, and total uncertainty became the foundation for resilience, leadership, and business success.

After breaking her leg playing rugby for England, Samantha was forced to slow down and in that stillness, she spotted an opportunity that would reshape her career. What began as a scrappy social media experiment turned into one of Australia’s leading brand and digital strategy agencies.

In this honest, grounded conversation, we explore:
• What Samantha wishes she knew at 30
• Why fast growth can sabotage long-term success
• Letting go of victim stories and drama hooks
• Building confidence through discomfort and change
• Leadership, accountability, and self-awareness
• Why momentum matters more than perfection

⏱️ Timestamps

00:00 – Samantha’s story: from rugby to brand building
02:55 – Life, motherhood, and business at 30
03:58 – Winging it vs finding purpose
05:06 – Risk-taking, fear, and momentum
06:38 – Why she didn’t have big goals (and what she learned)
08:48 – Values, alignment, and flow
11:05 – The myth of “fast = success”
12:18 – Divorce, uncertainty, and rebuilding identity
14:42 – Loneliness, resilience, and emotional growth
16:05 – Advice she’d whisper to her 30-year-old self
18:01 – Three life lessons that changed everything
22:50 – The mindset shift that redefined success
27:18 – Final takeaway: momentum over perfection

🌟 About the Host – Fran Harper
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💡 Fran Harper empowers individuals and teams to live with clarity, purpose, and balance. With decades of experience in sales, marketing, and communication, she blends business strategy with Neuro-Transformation Therapy to help people create lasting mindset shifts for success from the inside out.

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• Build resilience
• Rediscover purpose
• Create mindset shifts for success
• Live a life of freedom, impact & alignment

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What does it really take to build a family business that lasts for generations?

Mimmo Lubrano, CEO of Sandhurst Fine Foods, shares the raw truth.

In this powerful episode of What I Wish I Knew At 30, Fran Harper sits down with Mimmo Lubrano, the CEO behind one of Australia’s most loved food brands. From migrant roots and near-bankruptcy to leading a national food company, Mimmo reveals the real leadership, mindset, and grit required to build a sustainable family business.

This is not a highlight-reel success story. Mimmo opens up about trusting the wrong people, losing money, nearly losing the family home, and learning the hardest lessons of entrepreneurship. You’ll hear why persistence beats talent, why gut instinct matters more than spreadsheets, and why strong family values are the backbone of long-term success.

If you are a founder, leader, or professional navigating career uncertainty, this conversation will shift how you think about business, risk, and resilience.

⏱️ Timestamps

00:00 – From migrant family to CEO

05:30 – Nearly losing the family home

12:40 – COVID, cash flow & survival

17:30 – Did he have life figured out at 30?

24:40 – Becoming an industry expert

28:30 – The most expensive business mistakes

40:10 – Trust your gut

43:00 – Three rules for success

1:07:00 – His final message to entrepreneurs

🎯 What You’ll Learn in This Episode
• How to grow a family business in a competitive market
• Why most entrepreneurs fail in their 30s
• How to build trust with staff, suppliers, and customers
• Why persistence and education matter more than luck
• How to avoid the biggest business mistakes founders make

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💡 Fran Harper empowers individuals and teams to live with clarity, purpose, and balance. With decades of experience in sales, marketing, and communication, she blends business strategy with Neuro-Transformation Therapy to help people create lasting mindset shifts for success from the inside out.

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In this inspiring episode, we dive deep into the mindset habits that help leaders stay optimistic, focused, and purpose-driven every single day. Special guest Victor Perton, global leadership coach, former diplomat, and mindset strategist, shares the mindset practices he’s used to maintain clarity, positivity, and impact throughout his career.

From asking the right questions to embracing daily reflection, Victor reveals the simple but powerful habits that helped him navigate challenges, build resilience, and create meaningful leadership.

💡 Whether you’re a professional, entrepreneur, or simply looking to live with more intention, these mindset strategies will help you:

• Transform your daily perspective for success
• Stay positive and proactive in any situation
• Build resilience through reflection and clarity
• Create a life filled with purpose, influence, and impact
• Develop habits that amplify leadership and personal growth
  

Victor’s story demonstrates how consistent mindset shifts can reshape your life, from high-pressure leadership roles to everyday decision-making. If you’re ready to level up your mindset, productivity, and life purpose, this episode is your guide to daily transformation.

🎯 What You’ll Learn in This Episode

• Why asking yourself the right question daily can reshape your mindset
• How to maintain clarity and optimism even under pressure
• The leadership habits that foster resilience and impact
• Strategies for creating meaningful personal and professional growth
• How reflection and intention fuel success and fulfillment

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What does success really mean when life doesn’t go to plan?

In this powerful and deeply honest episode of What I Wish I Knew at 30, Fran Harper sits down with Paul Horwell, an international leader, community advocate, and President of JOY Media, to unpack identity, belonging, career pressure, and the mindset shifts that shaped his life.

Paul reflects on his 30s,  a period marked by career success, personal upheaval, and the courageous journey of coming out later in life. From navigating identity in the workplace to redefining success beyond approval and material achievement, this conversation is a masterclass in resilience, empathy, and authenticity.

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In this powerful episode of What I Wish I Knew at 30, Fran Harper sits down with Alan Tompkins, the first Australian ambassador for the Burnt Chef Project, to talk candidly about mental health, burnout, and breaking the stigma in the hospitality industry.

After spending 22 years as a chef and silently battling mental health challenges for over 30 years, Alan shares his deeply personal journey, from high-pressure kitchens and toxic work culture to experiencing breakdowns that ultimately led him to purpose. Now working as a consumer peer worker at Frankston Hospital, Alan uses his lived experience to support others through mental health crises and advocate for change across hospitality.

👇 What was your favorite moment or biggest lesson from Alan Tompkin’s story?

Share your thoughts in the comments. Your insight might inspire someone else's journey!

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