Are safety and trust the same thing? This video will look at safety and trust from different angles, and it also covers why a guy may get defensive over those topics, and “What if the guy doesn’t change?”

TIMESTAMPS (click on a time below to be taken to that section)

0:00 Intro

0:14 Are safety & trust the same?

0:47 Maslow's Hierarchy & trust

1:53 One Solution: If people prioritize safety & trust AND……

2:47 Lori & Jay's take on safety & trust

5:17 "But I'm not trying to hurt her" (why men may be defensive about safety & trust)

7:45 What if the guy never changes? *

8:42 Solutions: What does safety look like (practically) when she can't trust him *

11:37 "If I (did this) I could take care of myself financially"

12:46 In the next episode: Mistreatment or even abuse, and what guys can do instead

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