I'm not suggesting that you never look for love with another person.  But I AM suggesting that we've all been socialized within a belief system that coupled is better than single, and that we should solve the problem of being single as soon as possible.  People spend years in relationships that don't work, or hustle so hard to find "the one," they miss out on the enjoyment of their own lives in the process.  
 
 I'm here to offer you another way: where single isn't a problem, and you get to enjoy your life right now.