We have ALL been there.  We're ready to end it, but we're thinking: maybe this IS as good as it gets for me.  We look at our patterns and think that either we're fundamentally flawed OR we TURN partners into people we DON'T like.  We think - the next person will just be the SAME, so let's just make this work.  

But SPOILER: the best you can do will never, and should never, feel like shit.  In fact, if it feels like shit on the way there, it will feel like shit when you GET there... wherever that is.  Listen on to find out how to break your patterns.  It may not be easy, but it's a lot simpler than you think.