Whenever I see a post mentioning "real men" there are people who get upset at the audacity to define what a "real man" is.

But I think this is the foundation of the struggle that women have if they can't find a good man and the issues men have when it comes to having a healthy relationship with their masculinity.

If you get the least bit offended when it comes to "real men" how can you possibly BE or Attract a real man?

No we don't fit in boxes and we don't all act the same

AND..

Masculinity is certain and defined.  If you think that masculinity is fluid and it's absolutely everything then it's also absolutely nothing.

While there are plenty of wounded men in the world...

The mainstream narrative takes actual masculinity and defines it as "toxic masculinity"

Then tries to re-define masculinity by trying to make it fluid and embodying all the traits as feminine energy.

Then they get mad when these "healed men" that are only accepted through either a distorted lens or a feminine lens...

...  can't step up and be protectors.

If you can't define a real man and list core traits of what makes a real man then there's a very low chance of experiencing life as or with a real man.