Saying "I love you" might feel powerful in the moment—but do your actions actually match those words?

This episode breaks down what you're truly communicating when you tell someone you love them—and how your partner is likely interpreting it.

Here’s what love really means to most people:

1️⃣ Love = Contribution
✔️ You show up as a support to their emotional, mental, and spiritual well-being
✔️ You care about their needs and do your part to help them feel safe, valued, and heard

2️⃣ Love = Responsibility
✔️ It's not just having feelings for them—it's being aware of how you treat them
✔️ You’re not perfect, but you're intentional about not doing harm and actively showing care

3️⃣ Love = Alignment with Self-Love
✔️ If they love themselves, they expect you to love them at least the way they treat themselves
✔️ That means no yelling, no belittling, no dismissing feelings—because they don’t do that to themselves

💥 Don’t just say you love someone. Make sure you’re living it.
Love is more than affection—it’s how you consistently show up in someone’s life.