What’s the first thing a guy should do if he’s harmed the relationship, and what can make him “get it” more quickly? Also what can the lady do if his goal is to have an affair? We discuss those topics with author Matt Fray.

TIMESTAMPS (click on a time below to be taken to that section)

0:00 Intro

0:11 What if his goal is to have an affair?

1:09 One Solution: The quickest way to make him ‘get it’ *

1:57 The first thing a betrayer should do (a radical mind shift)

3:46 One Solution: The ‘big ask’ in Matt’s coaching

4:45 What if he says, “Well, she does this” *

7:56 In the next episode: Restoring trust and what can keep her from healing within the relationship

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https://thecouplecure.com - Jay and Lori's website

https://matthewfray.com - Matt's website

https://pornpainhealed.com - Lori's site for betrayed partners

https://porniskillingme.com - Jay's site for porn addiction recovery

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#betrayal

#coaching

#relationships