Fellas – let me help you. For all of us in midlife, chances are dating apps feel unnatural. Maybe you’ve been swiping, messaging, and matching but still asking yourself, “Why isn’t this working?” The secret to finding success on the apps isn’t about doing more, but approaching it differently.

Matching with someone can seem worlds away from meeting them at a party, but it can lead to something great — if you approach it with a little charm, effort, and strategy.

Nancy shares insights from her coaching program, Find Your Spark, and the dating app experiences her female clients are having. 

Three Common Mistakes Men Make On Dating Apps:

• Starting conversations with a dry “Hi” and nothing more!
• Going radio silence mid-conversation for days on end, leaving potential matches feeling ghosted.
• Messaging endlessly without taking the leap to meet in person.

Success in dating apps means showing genuine curiosity and making a consistent effort. And every conversation counts. Real connections start with meaningful interactions. 

How Men Can Do Better On Dating Apps:

• Jump in right away. Follow a greeting or a “like” with a conversation starter. 
• Express interest by asking thoughtful questions.
• Dedicate some time to build a connection, and put some energy into the dialogue. 
• Remember that conversations are a two-way street, There needs to be a give and take, online and in person. 

Whether you're a seasoned swiper or brand new to dating apps, this episode is all about the actionable advice to help you make the most of your digital dating experience.

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