What Remains: This is a podcast conversation about an essay called What Remains from the book Ghosts of Parenting. The episode explores parenting as lived time rather than advice or identity, naming what quietly accumulates across years of repetition, responsibility, fear, care, exhaustion, and love. It speaks to the invisible continuity of showing up, the way attention reshapes a life, and how presence persists even as children grow and change. The conversation gives language to the weight that is carried without ceremony, the intimacy formed through ordinary days, and the steady orientation towards another life that never fully switches off, revealing how clarity comes not through solutions, but through recognising what has already been lived and is still here.