Heather feels insecure and full of fear because Sean won't help her try out a new swimming pool. Sean is insecure because he feels like Heather is trying to change him and is no longer attracted to him.

Funny thing is, their fears keep them from seeing their spouse's desire. Their fears are putting a halt to their sex life.

Habit for your happily ever after: practice the Clean Ask Formula to expose fear.

Date-night-discussion: How can you use laughter to banish fear in your relationship?