What if the problem was never that you were “too much”…
What if your nervous system simply learned a different language of love?

In this episode of Breaking the Silence, Raynea and Kelli gently explore what secure love actually feels like—not as a definition or diagnosis, but as a lived, embodied experience.

Together, they get curious about the patterns many of us grew up with: love that felt intense, unpredictable, or required constant vigilance. They talk about why calm can feel suspicious, why consistency can feel underwhelming, and why safety sometimes feels unfamiliar when chaos was once normal.

This conversation isn’t about fixing yourself or labeling your attachment style. It’s about releasing shame and asking kinder questions—of your body, your story, and even God.

You’ll hear about:

• Why secure love often feels quiet instead of exciting

• How the nervous system clings to what’s familiar—even when it’s painful

• Why walking away from healthy love isn’t self-sabotage, but protection

• How curiosity softens shame and opens the door to healing

• A gentle faith lens on unfamiliar peace and steady love

There’s no pressure here. No checklist. No “do better.”

Just an invitation to notice, to get curious, and to remember:
You’re not behind. You’re becoming.