Over the past few weeks, we’ve watched a number of very public breakups play out online.I wanted to slow things down and actually look at what these moments are showing us. From Dami & Indiyah, to Brooklyn Beckham, to Kristy & Desmond, I reflect on how we respond to breakups, why cheating gets reframed as empowerment, how the internet chooses villains, and what happens when love moves faster than maturity.More than anything, this is a conversation about discernment, and what we can take away from these stories for our own lives, rather than who we decide to judge.