Reframed: Shift Your Perspective

What To Do When Someone You Love Is an Addict


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If someone you love is struggling with addiction, you already know how exhausting, confusing, and heartbreaking it can be. You want to help — but how do you know when helping becomes hurting?

In this episode of Reframed, Pastor Dan Jarms and Biblical Counselor Brian Sayers walk through a practical survival guide for caregivers, family members, and friends of addicts. They unpack what codependency and enabling actually look like, how to intervene in a way that's honest and loving, and why building your own support team isn't optional — it's essential.

Real love does what is best, not always what feels best.

In this episode:
  • What codependency is and how to recognize it in yourself
  • The difference between enabling and truly helping
  • How to intervene — and what the Bible says about the process
  • Why forgiveness and trust aren't the same thing
  • How to build a team and survive the long road
Featured resource: 
  • Divine Intervention by Mark Shaw
  • Addictions: A Banquet in the Grave by Ed Welch
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Join us for Sunday services at 8:30 and 10:30 am at 440 W. Cora in Spokane, WA. Learn more about our church here.

If you are not in Spokane, find a gospel-centered church here.
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Reframed: Shift Your PerspectiveBy Dan Jarms, Brian Sayers