In this one-hour Christian podcast episode, we explore why people often want to keep the old version of you instead of embracing the transformation God has made in your life. Through Scripture, spiritual insight, and emotional honesty, this episode addresses spiritual growth, identity in Christ, healing, boundaries, and the grief of outgrowing relationships. If you’ve been accused of “changing” after surrendering to God, this episode will affirm your obedience, encourage healthy boundaries, and remind you that God never intended you to stay the same. Perfect for listeners navigating faith-based healing, personal transformation, and Christian identity.

Elva Chase, BCCC | www.ElvaChase.com | Podcast: What's Ailing Ya?

How do you rebuild trust with God after church hurt, spiritual harm, or relational betrayal? In the What’s Ailing Ya? Season 1 finale, Christian counselor Elva Chase offers compassionate, trauma-informed guidance on healing from betrayal, restoring faith gently, setting healthy boundaries, and reclaiming your heart—without pressure, shame, or spiritual guilt.

Elva Chase, BCCC | www.ElvaChase.com | Podcast: What's Ailing Ya?

Is anxiety a punishment from God? Does struggling with fear mean weak faith? In this episode, Christian counselor Elva Chase addresses the harmful myth that anxiety is God’s punishment or a sign of weak faith. Drawing from personal experience and clinical insight, this episode explains how anxiety functions in the nervous system, why faith does not cancel biology, and how God responds to anxiety with compassion—not condemnation.

Elva Chase, BCCC | www.ElvaChase.com | Podcast: What's Ailing Ya?

Hurt by the church but still holding onto God? This episode explores church hurt and spiritual trauma from a trauma-informed Christian perspective, validating your pain and showing how healing is possible without abandoning your faith.

Elva Chase, BCCC | www.ElvaChase.com | Podcast: What's Ailing Ya?

Living with anxiety can feel exhausting, especially when faith, responsibility, and emotional pressure collide. In this episode of What’s Ailing Ya?, Christian counselor Elva Chase explains what anxiety really is, why it often becomes chronic, and how it can be addressed through nervous-system regulation, lifestyle support, trauma-informed counseling insight, and faith without pressure. This long-form conversation offers clarity and reassurance for anyone experiencing constant worry, physical anxiety symptoms, or spiritual fatigue, reminding listeners that anxiety does not mean they are broken or lacking faith and that healing can unfold with understanding, support, and compassion.

Elva Chase, BCCC | www.ElvaChase.com | Podcast: What's Ailing Ya?

Why does healing take so long, especially after trauma, unhealthy relationships, or spiritual pressure? In this episode of What’s Ailing Ya?, Elva Chase explores why God does not rush the healing process and why emotional and spiritual restoration often unfolds over time. The conversation addresses how trauma bonds are reinforced through pressure, shame, and the misuse of Scripture, and why forced forgiveness or premature reconciliation can delay true healing. This trauma-informed Christian counseling episode explains why boundaries, truth, and patience are essential for lasting freedom, offering clarity for those who feel stuck, pressured to heal quickly, or burdened by spiritual expectations that ignore the reality of trauma.

Elva Chase, BCCC | www.ElvaChase.com | Podcast: What's Ailing Ya?

Letting go of someone who hurt you can feel confusing, painful, and even frightening—especially when the attachment feels deep, spiritual, or impossible to break. Sometimes, leaving feels harder than staying, even when you know the relationship is unhealthy.

In this episode of What’s Ailing Ya?, board-certified Christian counselor Elva Chase explores trauma bonding—why the nervous system clings to familiar pain, how emotional survival can be mistaken for love, and why separation can feel like danger instead of relief. With a trauma-informed, biblical perspective, this conversation gently untangles faith from fear and replaces shame with understanding.

You’ll learn how trauma bonds form, why cycles of pain and relief keep you stuck, and how faith is sometimes misused to justify emotional harm or self-abandonment. This episode offers compassionate clarity for anyone who has thought, “I know this isn’t good for me, but I can’t seem to let go.”

Healing doesn’t require rushing, self-blame, or spiritual pressure. It begins with awareness, safety, and truth.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• What a trauma bond is—and why it’s not the same as love
• Why letting go can feel harder than staying
• How the pain → relief cycle trains the nervous system
• The difference between love, attachment, and survival
• How faith can become entangled with emotional harm or control
• The role of narcissistic abuse, emotional manipulation, and spiritual pressure
• How childhood patterns can shape attachment without parent-blaming
• Gentle, safe steps toward breaking trauma bonds
• Why grief and discomfort often come before peace
• Biblical clarity: God’s voice never requires self-abandonment

Breaking a trauma bond is one of the hardest steps in healing—because your body can confuse relief after pain with love. If you’re stuck in an emotionally harmful relationship, wrestling with guilt, fear, or spiritual confusion, this episode offers clarity, compassion, and a gentle path forward.

Awareness is not failure.
 It’s the beginning of freedom.

Elva Chase, BCCC | www.ElvaChase.com | Podcast: What's Ailing Ya?

Confused about whether to stay or leave a relationship?
In this episode of What’s Ailing Ya?, Christian counselor Elva Chase breaks down the critical difference between trauma bonding and spiritual discernment. Learn how to recognize emotional attachment rooted in harm versus God-led wisdom rooted in peace. This trauma-informed, faith-based episode helps believers identify unhealthy soul ties, release confusion, and make relationship decisions aligned with biblical wisdom, emotional safety, and spiritual clarity.

Many Christians struggle to discern whether emotional attachment is love, trauma bonding, or God’s leading. This episode offers biblical clarity, psychological insight, and peace-centered wisdom for relationship decisions.

Elva Chase, BCCC | www.ElvaChase.com | Podcast: What's Ailing Ya?

Does forgiveness mean reconciliation?
In this episode of What's Ailing Ya?, Christian counselor Elva Chase explores the biblical difference between forgiveness and reconciliation and explains why forgiveness does not require restored access. Learn how Scripture supports godly boundaries, emotional safety, and wisdom without compromising faith. This trauma-informed, faith-based teaching helps believers forgive without returning to unhealthy relationships, release guilt, and walk in peace while honoring God.

Elva Chase, BCCC | www.ElvaChase.com | Podcast: What's Ailing Ya?

Struggling to love someone who keeps hurting you? In this episode, Christian counselor Elva Chase explores unhealthy relationships and the emotional and spiritual confusion that comes with loving someone who continues to cause harm. Through a trauma-informed Christian perspective, you’ll learn why compassion can coexist with boundaries, why love does not require self-destruction, and how faith supports self-protection, secure attachment, and emotional clarity

Elva Chase, BCCC | www.ElvaChase.com | Podcast: What's Ailing Ya?