is it right ?

To ask someone for help

telling someone the truth

Taking first step towards somebody

Saying sorry first

To let it go and leave

To not to make any efforts

To have sex before marriage

To expect

Is it right ?

This is the question we keep asking to ourselves in different ways from initiating a conversation to the big life changing decisions

We try to just fit into the right or wrong we have seen or heard from the people around us

is there anything like universal right for every situation that everyone will accept

is there any team sitting somewhere who is deciding the right or wrong for everyone and releasing the guidelines time to time ?

I know it sounds funny but in everyone’s head there is those 4 people or the society whom they don’t even know

make a huge impact on the decisions they make.

But I believe there is nothing like right or wrong

It’s what you believe or like

let me give you a little real view of it

For some people smoking is not right and for some it gives them peace

For some wearing short clothes is not right and for some it’s the the way they like it or feel comfortable in

For some having sex before marriage is wrong and for some it’s another way of showing love

So who is wrong or who is right ?

Cann’t decide right ?

right is different for everyone according to their beliefs or likes

Some people just say it out loud and most of the others just accept what society decides for them.

Where do you see yourself between these two ?

It’s your life and shouldn’t you be deciding what you should do with it ?

Why to do something just to be accepted

Don’t you think so your decisions should be based on what makes you feel happy or allow your conscience to be in peace

If it is right for you then it is right no matter who thinks what

It’s your life and only your are responsible for it

any decision you have taken keeping your happiness on priority is right

you are not being selfish at all

to spread or give happiness to the people around you

Don’t you think so you should be happy first ?

It is more like if you have water in your glass then only you can pour it to other people.

So the next time you ask yourself this question instead of thinking about the acceptance of the people around you think is it going to make you happy

But what if we are unable to understand what is right or wrong

whenever you don’t know or get stuck just see the situation through three parameters :

- Is it going to get me peace or happiness

- Is it going to teach me something good

- Is it going to get me money

And if it is a yes for any of these then you know why it is right :)

But still it is right for you only.

It will be wrong if you force someone to do what you think is right

Whether it’s your parents, partner, friends or colleague or anyone

You can suggest and leave it up to them to make the decision

But choose what makes you happy and it will come out right to you.

That’s all for today Guys see you on Friday now :)

Hope this helps.

Love K.