This is a transformation discussion on part 2 in the transformation series, "Why do I need it"? Joined by my lovely wife Cindy, we discuss the components of transformation that I have gone through over a decade ago, and with her, more recently. People's growth has been stunted due to the lack of transformation from their childhood behavioral structures, and them not realizing it, to blaming others for their anger, frustration, and discomfort, etc.
My wife and I are going on 40 years of marriage, and we see in the body of Christ such a high divorce rate due to the fact that people cannot see their own faults, nor take responsibility for their own actions, cannot be willing and humble to see their own faults, and take corrective action the way God wants you to that is outlined in His Word.
Facing your "stuff" is vital for you, so you can advance to maturity in the Lord. Once you "face your stuff", and take corrective action by implementing God's principles, meditating on them, then and only then will you achieve maturity in Christ, as well as being set free-Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.” John 8:32
It's like learning how to walk. When you start learning as a child you have to hold on to things and learn how not to fall. Now for you it is automatic, and you don't have to think about it. That's how it is with the transformation. We have to keep practicing and practicing the new way of living by not reacting, but rather responding.