Intelligent Intoxication

When Caretaking Is Self-Sabotage


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We all have different “parts” in our psyches, minds, and souls. Think of each part as a singer on American Idol, competing for the “spotlight” in our lives. Our goal is to:

  • identify
  • accept
  • learn from
  • work with
  • our parts. 

    In her brilliant book Rezoom: The Powerful Reframe to End the Crash-And-Burn Cycle of Food Addiction, author Susan Pierce Thompson outlines 6 Parts than can sabotage our highest self:

    • Indulgers
  • Controllers
  • Caretakers
  • Rebels
  • Inner Critics
  • Isolators
  • The Caretaker Part wants to “rescue and save others” in order to avoid your own personal work. 

    Here are the Caretaker archetypes or “flavors”:

    • 24-Hour Nurse: “If I’m always caring for others, I can prove my worth and avoid self-reflection and vulnerability.”
    • Pushover: “I just can’t say NO.”
    • Martyr: “I’m resentful and exhausted because I help too much!”
    • Pleaser: “I just can’t have them disappointed in me. I have to avoid confrontation.”
    • Hero: “I will swoop in and save the say even if it costs me.”
    • Peacemaker: “I will avoid conflict and keep the peace at any cost.”

    I invite you to consider these questions:

    • When do you notice a Caretaker Part trying to rescue others at your own expense?
  • What type of Caretaker Part resonates most with you?
  • When do you notice your Caretaker Part sabotaging your best efforts?
  • How is your Caretaker Part trying to keep you safe?

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