When did you know?

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When did you know? episodes

  • "When I walked into a room at school everyone stopped talking" - Ben Pechey

    On 'When Did You Know?' this week I am joined by Ben Pechey! Ben is a writer, speaker, content creator, LGBT+ advocate and soon-to-be author. They've worked with major brands such as Amazon Prime, Oliver Bonas, Matalan and many more and have written for The Guardian, Cosmopolitan and Women's Health to name a few. You can find out all about Ben through their website at www.benpechey.com.


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    39 min
  • "My friend threw her sewing machine out the window” - Tyler and Lolo

    On 'When Did You Know?' this week I am joined by Tyler and Lolo from Traveller Pride UK. Tyler is a psychotherapist living and working in London. He founded and runs Traveller Pride, the UK's network for LGBT Travellers & Gypsies and is involved in advocacy for Traveller groups, particularly around Education, LGBT+ Inclusion and mental health. Lolo is a Lesbian mixed Romany activist based in the West Midlands and North West. She is a co-founder of Traveller Pride supporting and campaigning for LGBT+ GRT (Gypsy Roma Traveller) people, and co-founder of the Dikhlo Collective providing free cultural packages to Romani people worldwide. Find out and support LGBT+ Traveller Pride through their website at www.lgbttravellerpride.com.


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    56 min
  • "The internet helped me find people like me" - Dr Sammy Li

    On 'When Did You Know?' this week I’m joined by Dr Sammy Li. Sammy is the strategic lead for equality, diversity and inclusion for over 37,000 students at the University of Birmingham on both their UK and overseas campuses and works with the University of Amsterdam on intercultural collaborations. Sammy is also the convener of the LGBT+ network of networks in higher education which is a consortium of LGBT staff networks and equality and diversity practitioners from over 90 UK universities. 


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    31 min
  • "My parents knew first but thought it was a phase"- Trudy Howson

    On this episode of 'When did You Know?' I am joined by the UK's LGBT+ Poet Laureate, Trudy Howson. Trudy has been the inaugural LGBT+ Poet Laureate since 2016 and in this role she has written poetry that reflects the diversity of the LGBT+ community and the LGBT+ experience. Her work has been featured on the BBC as part of their London 2012 Olympics coverage and been published in The times, The Telegraph and numerous online publications. Ex-actress and world traveller Trudy shares her joyful and painful experiences as a lesbian from an accepting childhood through the trauma of grief at losing her long-term lover. You can find out more about Trudy's work at www.lgbtpoetlaureate.org.uk.


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    30 min
  • "I pushed it aside and didn't see myself as sexual" - Jendrik Sigwart

    Season 2 is here and what an episode to start off with! I saw down with Germany's representative at the Eurovision song contest 2021, Jendrik Sigwart, to talk about the contest, not coming out and LGBT+ role models in Germany. Jendrik studied at Osnabruck Institute of Music going on to be a musical theatre performer and then had the honour of representing Germany at the Eurovision Song Contest in Rotterdam 2021. Jendrik’s song may not have won the contest but he certainly won our hearts through his passion for inclusion and his drive to spread positivity. You can find out all about Jendrik through his website at www.jendriksworld.com


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    37 min
  • Season 2 is coming!
    Season 2 launches on Wednesday 30th June!


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    2 min
  • BONUS EPISODE - Ben Freeman on his new book, 'Jewish Pride'

    (TW: Suicide and self-harm is discussed in this episode.) BONUS CONTENT! Whilst I am busy preparing for Season 2 of 'When Did You Know?' I wanted to share with you a special bonus episode with author Ben Freeman. Ben appeared on the show in episode 4 and since then has had his first book published so he came to the show to talk about the impact of the LGBTQ+ pride movement on the Jewish Pride movement.


    You can learn more about Ben through his website www.benmfreeman.com and his new book is out now. Don't forget to follow 'When Did You Know?' on Twitter, Instagram and Facebook or email me on [email protected] to get the latest updates on Season 2!


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    42 min
  • "My Mum told the family over Christmas Dinner" - Gina Battye

    Merry Christmas! Welcome to the final episode of Season 1 and I have quite the festive coming out story for you from Gina Battye. Gina is a world-renowned authenticity, psychological safety and LGBT+ inclusion consultant and trainer. Gina works with multinational corporations, Fortune 500 companies, in TV, film and the global press and her work has featured on Sky News, BBC Radio, Vice, Diva and Forbes Magazine amongst others. You can find out about all of Gina's ground-breaking work through her website at www.ginabattye.com.


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    54 min
  • "I went to see The Bird Cage with my mom" - H. Alan Scott/Sadie Pines

    Happy Hanukkah! Welcome to my special bumper Hanukkah episode! This week I am delighted to be joined by H Alan Scott, also known as Sadie Pines, zooming in direct from Los Angeles. H Alan is a writer, comedian and cancer survivor based in the US known for his work on the Jimmy Kimmel Show, Ellen and MTV as well as writing for Vice, Fusion and Out Magazine. He is also the star and subject of the multi-award-winning documentary Latter Day Jew where he talks about his conversion to Judaism having been raised Mormon. H Alan’s alter-ego is Sadie Pines the only drag queen fully inspired by The Golden Girls, available for bookings when not in quarantine.


    I came across H Alan’s work as co-host of Out on the Lanai: The Golden Girls Podcast and the You’re Making It Worse podcast; both are available on all major podcast platforms and you can follow H Alan and Sadie Pines on Twitter and Instagram and find out about all of H Alan's work at www.halanscott.com.


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    52 min
  • "My friend was sent to a clinic in Germany to fix him" - Yordan Sinapov
    Time for quite a personal episode as my guest this week is my boyfriend, Yordan Sinapov. Yordan grew up in Bulgaria toward the end of the communist regime and has led a very colourful life from dancing across the world, being an economist and serving in the army and in this episode he talks openly and honestly with me about his difficulties in coming out and having to pretend he had a girlfriend for many years. Don't forget to follow 'When Did You Know?' on Twitter, Instagram and Facebook or email me on [email protected].

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    43 min

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Sometimes funny, sometimes sad but always fascinating, this show aims to uncover stories of self-discovery and coming out from a diverse range of LGBT+ guests answering the simple question...when did…