Not Your Average Counsellor

šŸ’¬ When Does a Relationship Become Exclusive?


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You’re spending most of your time together, texting good morning and goodnight, and maybe even leaving a toothbrush at their place—but are you exclusive? In today’s dating world, exclusivity isn't always a given—so let’s talk about how to know where you stand, and why it’s better to talk than assume.

Inside This Episode:

šŸ“… Old-school vs. now. Back in the day, exclusivity was expected. Now? It’s a whole conversation.

🚩 Why assuming can backfire. Just because it feels serious doesn’t mean you’re both on the same page.

šŸ—£ļø Having the talk. When and how to ask, ā€œAre we exclusive?ā€ without sounding needy or awkward.

šŸ†š Unspoken vibes vs. spoken clarity. Why you might need more than ā€œIt just feels like we are.ā€

šŸ“± Social media confusion. Does a post = commitment? Or is that just for show?

ā³ Waiting for clarity. How long is too long to wonder where you stand?

šŸ” Exclusive ≠ official. What’s the difference between being exclusive and being in a committed relationship?

šŸ’­ Bottom line: every relationship is different—but guessing isn’t the same as knowing.

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ā¤ļø Let’s Keep This Conversation Going!

Have you had the exclusivity talk—or been caught off guard when you realised you weren’t exclusive after all? I want to hear your story. DM me, email me, or drop your thoughts on socials.

If this episode gave you a little clarity (or a nudge to have that conversation), share it with someone who's wondering the same thing. Until next time—trust your gut, ask the questions, and never be afraid to seek clarity.

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