In today’s video, I talk about what it really means to know when enough is enough.

I reflect on a line from the Tao Te Ching, “Do your work, then step back. The only path to serenity,” and how it speaks directly to queer leaders and change-makers who often feel pressure to overwork, over polish, or perfect everything.

I walk through the five elements of my DREAM principle—Desire, Render, Emotion, Alignment, and Method—and how each one offers a way to stay connected to your vision without burning out.

This is about finding your rhythm, honouring your energy, and knowing when to let your work be complete—not perfect.

For a deeper explanation of my DREAM principle, read my article,

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