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When Everything Feels Like Too Much: How to Return to Center
We explore the art and science of self-soothing when everything feels like too much, building what I call an emotional first aid kit for life's overwhelming moments.
• Emotional regulation is your brain's ability to navigate stress without chaos—a dance between the amygdala and prefrontal cortex
• When overwhelmed, our prefrontal cortex goes offline, triggering fight, flight, freeze, or fawn responses
• Poor emotional regulation links to higher rates of anxiety, depression, substance use, and chronic illness
• Many of us grew up without learning emotional literacy—told to "toughen up" instead of process feelings
• The 5-4-3-2-1 technique engages all five senses to ground you in the present moment
• Labeling emotions ("I feel anxious") reduces their intensity by activating regulation centers in the brain
• Self-compassionate talk like "This is hard, but I'm not abandoning myself" creates internal safety
• Sensory comfort (soft textures, nature, movement) helps emotions move through rather than get stuck
• Creating a daily practice through comfort corners, feelings journals, or mantras rewires neural pathways
• Emotional regulation isn't about perfection—it's about learning to stay with yourself through difficult feelings
If something in today's episode resonated, I'd love to hear what's in your emotional first aid kit. Message me or join the conversation on Couch Time with Cat on Instagram.
Support the show
Couch Time with Cat isn’t therapy—it’s real conversation designed to support your journey alongside any personal or professional help you're receiving. If you're in emotional crisis or need immediate support, please get in touch with a professional or reach out to a 24/7 helpline like:
- US: 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline)
- UK: Samaritans at 116 123
- Australia: Lifeline at 13 11 14
- Or find local resources through findahelpline.com
You’re not alone. Let’s take this one honest conversation at a time.
Follow the show and share it with someone who’s ready for healing, hope, and a more empowered way forward.
Show hosted by:
Catia Hernandez Holm, LMFT-A
Supervised by Susan Gonzales, LMFT-S, LPC-S
You can connect with Catia at couchtimewithcat.com
and
To become a client visit- catiaholm.com
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By Catia Hernandez HolmWe explore the art and science of self-soothing when everything feels like too much, building what I call an emotional first aid kit for life's overwhelming moments.
• Emotional regulation is your brain's ability to navigate stress without chaos—a dance between the amygdala and prefrontal cortex
• When overwhelmed, our prefrontal cortex goes offline, triggering fight, flight, freeze, or fawn responses
• Poor emotional regulation links to higher rates of anxiety, depression, substance use, and chronic illness
• Many of us grew up without learning emotional literacy—told to "toughen up" instead of process feelings
• The 5-4-3-2-1 technique engages all five senses to ground you in the present moment
• Labeling emotions ("I feel anxious") reduces their intensity by activating regulation centers in the brain
• Self-compassionate talk like "This is hard, but I'm not abandoning myself" creates internal safety
• Sensory comfort (soft textures, nature, movement) helps emotions move through rather than get stuck
• Creating a daily practice through comfort corners, feelings journals, or mantras rewires neural pathways
• Emotional regulation isn't about perfection—it's about learning to stay with yourself through difficult feelings
If something in today's episode resonated, I'd love to hear what's in your emotional first aid kit. Message me or join the conversation on Couch Time with Cat on Instagram.
Support the show
Couch Time with Cat isn’t therapy—it’s real conversation designed to support your journey alongside any personal or professional help you're receiving. If you're in emotional crisis or need immediate support, please get in touch with a professional or reach out to a 24/7 helpline like:
- US: 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline)
- UK: Samaritans at 116 123
- Australia: Lifeline at 13 11 14
- Or find local resources through findahelpline.com
You’re not alone. Let’s take this one honest conversation at a time.
Follow the show and share it with someone who’s ready for healing, hope, and a more empowered way forward.
Show hosted by:
Catia Hernandez Holm, LMFT-A
Supervised by Susan Gonzales, LMFT-S, LPC-S
You can connect with Catia at couchtimewithcat.com
and
To become a client visit- catiaholm.com