When I Do Turns Into I Don't "The WoWs Of The VoW's", A ministry to help singles prepare for marriage, to help teach and prepare divorced men and women and to those who are married that needs enhancement, to be strengthened and to help restore the marriage from hurt, betrayal or brokenness. earning it through the Word of God. Always know this, "Divorce is not an Option by God, But a Choice by Man. Malachi 2:10-16 Matthew 19:8. A lot of times wives and even husbands feel like they don’t have a voice. But that is not true. Everyone has a voice, and no one should take your voice away. We are told s many times “HUSH” but there comes a time when you must speak up. So, God gave me “Don’t Hush! Speak Up”! Communication is the key to unlock lips.