When I Do Turns Into I Don't "The WoWs Of The VoW's" is a ministry to help singles prepare for marriage to help divorced men and women to prepare to remarry and to those who are married who needs enhancement, to be strengthened or help restore marriage from hurt, betrayal or brokenness through the Word of God. It is a ministry to help men and women to know what to do when their relationship or marriage begins to shift in the wrong direction from better to worst, from richer to poorer, from love to hate, and to understand that Divorce is not an Option by God, But a Choice by Man. Matthew 19:8 Jesus replied, “Moses permitted divorce only as a concession to your hard hearts, but it was not what God had originally intended”.