When I Say Love, You Say..... I happen to think the phrase “you can’t love anyone until you love yourself” is played out and wrong. I’ve loved plenty of people, sometimes as a direct counter to the lack of love I’ve given myself. What happens when you’re the recipient of love and you’re not ready? Today’s show touches on love and what that means, old souls, creatives and height fetishes…Jump in and recall a time when you were in love.