When In White

When In White

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When In White episodes

  • When Your Wedding Vendor is Your BFF

    Being a bride with a bestie in the wedding industry sounds like a dream—built-in hype woman, expert advice, and maybe even a sweet deal. But what’s it really like? In this episode, we break down the do’s and don’ts of mixing friendship with business, how to support your vendor BFF without overstepping, and the things your wedding-vendor-bestie secretly wishes you knew. Spoiler: it’s all about boundaries, respect, and keeping your friendship front and center.

    Follow along and tell us your stories on Instagram 👉 @wheninwhitepodcast

    22 min
  • Wedding Dress Drama & The Wildest “Bad Wedding” Stories

    What happens when a wedding dress mishap sparks a TikTok frenzy? In this episode, we dive into hilarious (and jaw-dropping) stories from couples and guests who shared the WORST things that happened at their weddings. From wardrobe fails to wild MIL behavior, we’re laughing our way through it all—and wrapping up with a reminder that even when things go wrong, love wins every time. Grab a glass of wine and get ready to laugh your ass off with us!

    Follow along and share your own wedding stories with us on Instagram 👉 @wheninwhitepodcast

    24 min
  • Almost “I Do’s” and Messy Hearts – Breaking Down The Summer I Turned Pretty

    We’re diving deep into The Summer I Turned Pretty—covering Belly and Jeremiah’s almost-wedding, the tangled psychology behind the characters, and our bold predictions for the rest of the season. Grab your iced coffee, because this episode is full of hot takes and heartfelt analysis. 💌 Don’t forget to message us with your thoughts and theories—we might just share them in our next episode!

    38 min
  • Vet Your Vendors: The Truth About Styled Shoots

    Styled shoots are everywhere—from Instagram to wedding blogs—but what do they really mean for brides and vendors? In this episode, we break down how styled shoots shape portfolios, the red flags to watch out for when vetting a photographer, and why some setups you see online just aren’t realistic for an actual wedding day. We also share vendor experiences—the good, the bad, and the “get out now” moments—so you know exactly how to protect your time, money, and energy.

    29 min
  • Perfectionism, Comparison, and the Standards We Can’t Stop Raising

    From Pinterest-perfect moodboards to being the “ideal” parent, perfectionism sneaks into every corner of our lives. Maddie drops the truth: “You’re never seeing perfection because your standards are always getting higher.” We unpack the pressure to measure up, how those ever-climbing expectations hold us back, and why embracing the messy middle might just be the most freeing thing you do. Join the discussion on Instagram @wheninwhitepodcast—we want to hear your take.

    11 min
  • Influencers, Fine Print, and Why You Always Need a Contract

    Whether you’re working with a mega influencer or your cousin’s brand-new page, social media wields more influence than you think. We dive into why you should always put agreements in writing—no matter the follower count—and how contracts protect your creativity, time, and sanity. Follow us on Instagram @wheninwhitepodcast for more behind-the-scenes and conversation starters you won’t hear anywhere else.

    17 min
  • ChatGPT: Your New Biz Bestie (and Wedding Planner??)

    Whether you’re a wedding vendor drowning in emails or a bride staring at a blank Pinterest board—this episode is your lifeline. We’re breaking down all the actually useful ways ChatGPT can save you time, spark creativity, and help you show up like the pro (or the planner) you were meant to be. From writing emails to crafting timelines to dreaming up vows—it’s like having a virtual assistant who gets it.

    💬 Come listen, take notes, and tag us with how you’re using ChatGPT in your business or wedding planning—because work smarter, not harder, babe.

    24 min
  • Are You a Bad Vendor… or Just a Bad Person?

    Let’s get real. In this spicy episode, we’re diving headfirst into the hot take that has the wedding industry shaking: is your client experience bad because you're overwhelmed… or because you're just not being a good human? We’re kicking off a new series on what it means to actually be a better vendor—no fluff, no excuses. Just real talk, accountability, and some hard truths we all need to hear. Buckle up, babe. It’s about to get uncomfortable—in the best way.

    🎧 Tune in, tag us with your thoughts, and share this with a vendor who needs to hear it. Let’s grow better together.

    21 min
  • The Pause Before the Snap: Finding Patience in the Chaos of Mom Life

    Let’s be real—being a mom is beautiful, but it’s also a lot. The messes, the meltdowns, the endless questions (and snacks). In this episode, we’re talking about the power of the pause—the breath you take before reacting, the space you give yourself to be human, and how to practice patience when your nerves are frayed. Whether you’re in the thick of toddlerhood or juggling big kid emotions, this one's for the moms learning to respond with grace (or at least less yelling).

    ✨ You’re not alone in the chaos—and you’re doing better than you think.

    💬 Tune in, take a breath, and share this with a mama who needs the reminder today.

    31 min
  • Red Flags & Gut Checks: Spotting Vendor Vibes Early

    Choosing the right wedding vendors can make or break your experience—and we’re not just talking about the photos and hair. In this episode, we’re diving into the red flags you need to look out for, whether you're a bride, couple, or vendor yourself. From ghosting communication to sketchy social media presence, we’re covering why stalking (yes, stalking!) your vendors online is smart, how to listen to your gut, and when to walk away. This one’s spicy, honest, and here to help you avoid the regret later.

    👉 If this episode hit home, don’t forget to rate, review, and share it with a friend (or your wedding group chat). And if you're a vendor who’s nodding along? Slide into our DMs—we’d love to connect!

    28 min

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A Wedding Planning Podcast: Join us, Maddie & Alley, a bridal hairstylist and wedding photographer as we navigate the world of weddings and give you the secrets that no one wants to tell you…