Many of us enjoy seeing a friend or family members reaction when we give them a gift. It can bring us lots of joy watching them open a gift we've gotten for them. But what happens if they don't like the gift or show the level of excitement and appreciation we think they should, how do you feel then? When we give expecting something in return, either a positive affirmation or perhaps something of equal value, we loose the real affect and intention of giving. Learn how to detach your emotions.