I hear it all the time and I've said it myself, “It’s hard to make friends as an adult..especially female friends.”  
Insecurities, competitiveness, and comparison-itis all lead to unsafe friendships.   
The more confident and secure you are in yourself, the better friendships you will attract.    
Making friends as an adult is only hard when you never want to feel awkward when you never want to be rejected.    
You’re here for the tips, the advice, and the answers. Tune into this episode to learn how to make meaningful friendships as an adult (and how to prune the bad ones).   
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When making friends as an adult is hard

Rebekah Buege, author of The Body Image Solution and Social Currency, gives her tips for building confidence, improving body image, and thriving as a single woman in today's world. Tune in most Thursdays for episodes that feel like advice from a good friend, not a lecture from an expert.

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Welcome back to Confidently She! Do you ever wonder if you're growing spiritually? Yes, maybe you're consistent with spiritual disciplines, but how do you tell if there's real growth in your heart? Proverbs says out of the heart the mouth speaks. Your actions will give you direct indications of your spiritual growth. I put together a list of 11 ways I noticed my behavior, mindset, and speech change once I truly started walking with the Lord. You can use these as indicators of your own growth - plus, look out for these characteristics when you're choosing friendships. The character of your friends quickly becomes the character of your own. Remember you can join the discussion on Substack https://open.substack.com/pub/rebekahbuege



S5 E8: She displays Godly characteristics (and her friends do, too)

Welcome back! Sometimes Christians forget that America is not a Christian nation. It's a nation of religious freedom, which means freedom from religion as well as the right to practice individual religions. This means, as Christians, we should never be shocked or offended when political agendas don't align with our values. It's a presidential election year in the United States, which means the republican party will attempt to harness the religious voting block regardless of their candidate's personal beliefs and values. This episode serves as a reminder, a warning, and an encouragement to prioritize unity over uniformity. Our ultimate aim is not to influence American politics, it's to live in holiness as salt + light to the world, visible through our love. Listen for an honest reality check for what is most important in the midst of an election year. 

S5 E7: She prioritizes kingdom unity over political uniformity

Welcome back to Confidently She! This episode is a response to 1 Thessalonians where Christians are called to live a quiet life. It feels like this goes directly against much of the themes I see at Christian conferences in America. What does it really look like to live quietly? How are we supposed to impact people when we live quietly in a world that's getting louder and louder each year? I have some thoughts and I hope it helps encourage you. Don't forget to join us over on Substack for further conversation: https://open.substack.com/pub/rebekahbuege



S5 E6: She lives quietly, but impacts greatly

Welcome back to season five of Confidently She. In this episode, I'm walking you through the mindset of enjoyment and why it's important in my walk with God. The gifts God gives are meant to be enjoyed to the fullest. God is not stingy with his gifts. He is not withholding, even though it feels that way to us sometimes. Remember that God is a father and there's nothing parents enjoy more than seeing their child enjoy the gifts they give them. So I'm sharing the 3 necessary shifts I made to fully enjoy gifts from God. I hope you enjoy!

S5 E5: She enjoys gifts from God

Everyone needs approval. Call it validation, permission, praise, etc. we all crave it. It's just part of the human condition. But why do some people desperately seek the approval of their parents, friends, or strangers on the internet? What is it about that kind of approval we crave? Find out why you seek approval from people in this episode of Confidently She. Don't forget about the Substack, join here: https://open.substack.com/pub/rebekahbuege



When making friends as an adult is hard

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