Things No One Tells You

When NFL Glory Meets Personal Grief with Alex Okafor


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When you think of a Super Bowl champion, you probably picture confetti, rings, and a perfect ending. But for Alex Okafor, the story was much more complicated.

There’s a part of Alex’s story that gave me chills. It happened during the national anthem at the Super Bowl. He wasn’t suited up. An injury had taken him out of the game. But in that moment, sitting with his family, Alex’s mom wrapped her arm around him and reminded him that he’d already helped his team get there. Months later, she was gone, taken suddenly by leukemia.

In this conversation, Alex talks about what it’s like to go from the highest high to the lowest low in the span of weeks. He opens up about the uncertainty of draft day, the grind of an NFL career, and the grief that nobody really prepares you for. And he shares how he’s taken that pain and turned it into purpose: mentoring kids, serving his community, and helping families impacted by blood cancer.

What You’ll Discover:

  • How Alex’s dream shifted from basketball to football (10:00)
  • The lessons in culture and swagger from the Chiefs’ Super Bowl run (26:43)
  • How an injury shifted Alex’s perspective and his seat in the stands (31:30)
  • The last gift of time Alex got with his mom (37:13)
  • Why nobody tells you what grief is really going to feel like (45:16)
  • How Alex is carrying his mom’s legacy forward through service (50:56)

This is a story about football, but it’s also about faith, family, and finding your footing after life changes in an instant.

You can watch this interview on YouTube: https://youtu.be/hnRlMTt4mGg 

For a full transcript and more, check out our blog post: https://www.lindsaycz.com/show-notes/alex-okafor-13  

Connect with Alex Okafor

Follow Alex on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexokafor/

Learn more about Alex’s work with the Leukemia & Lymphoma Society: https://bloodcancerunited.org/ 

To read Alex’s article that he shared in Player’s Tribune, click here.

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Things No One Tells YouBy Lindsay Czarniak