The Infinite Self

When "Nice" Means Danger: How to Trust Your Gut & Spot Warning Signs


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Welcome to an episode that delves into one of life's most crucial, yet often misunderstood, skills: predicting human behaviour, particularly violence. Drawing on decades of expertise, we explore how to recognise the subtle, and sometimes not-so-subtle, warning signs that precede dangerous acts.

Learn about the innate power of intuition, that rapid cognitive process that signals danger even before our conscious mind catches up. Discover how to distinguish true fear, a vital survival signal, from the unproductive states of worry, anxiety, or panic. We'll uncover how denial can act as a powerful impediment to recognising risk and accepting the often uncomfortable truths presented by reality and our own inner wisdom.

This episode dissects various forms of violence, from stranger attacks to dangers posed by people we know intimately or professionally. Understand the dynamics behind unwanted persistence, stalking, and domestic violence, examining the language and behaviours of those who refuse to let go. We explore how factors like perceived justification, alternatives, consequences, and ability influence the likelihood of violence (the JACA framework).

We also lift the curtain on violence in the workplace, discussing common pre-incident indicators and strategies for navigating difficult situations, including terminations. The unique hazards faced by public figures and the motivations of attackers, including the search for attention and significance, are also addressed, alongside the surprising unreliability of direct threats in predicting such attacks.

You'll gain insights into the impact of childhood experiences on future behaviour and the role of media and cultural messages in shaping perceptions of violence and relationships.

Ultimately, this episode empowers you by highlighting that the ability to predict violence isn't a mystical gift reserved for experts, but a skill inherent in all of us, refined through experience and honest self-awareness. By learning to trust your intuitive signals and understanding the patterns of human behaviour, you can significantly enhance your personal safety and live with less unwarranted fear. Tune in to strengthen your inherent capacity to foresee and avoid danger.

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