Your calendar is full of “good opportunities”—collabs, speaking, side projects, custom work—but your core business keeps getting leftovers. In this episode of Show Me Shena, Dr. Shena Dixon Mason, Esq.—attorney, financial services professional, multi‑business owner, and small‑business bodyguard—runs an “Is This Actually An Opportunity For Me?” check to reveal how flattering invitations can quietly drain your focus, energy, and revenue. You’ll walk through the Core vs. Cute Test, the Capacity Reality Check, and the 90‑Day Future Credit Question so you can see which yeses are really hidden nos to your main goals. Then you’ll get a 45‑minute Yes/No Lab Sheet and one concrete move to make this week, so you can start saying yes only to what truly builds the business you say you want.