I'll be honest - I feel a bit far from this pain.  It doesn't irk me anymore when people ask if I am SURE that what I want in love is out there.  Truthfully, no one asks me this anymore.  But they USED to ... when I thought maybe I was being too picky.  

But this week, a follower on IG asked me if I was SURE there was a market for folks who want to be happy single, and I remembered what y'all feel like when "challengers" want to ask about your certainty.  YOU create it.  You never have to answer to them.  And you always get to decide on what you want, even if naysayers think you should be settling for something else.  

How?  Listen for all my tips!