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Why is it so hard to just be? In this episode, we unpack the tension between knowing we need rest… and still choosing productivity instead. From cleaning baseboards to reorganizing closets, we explore the emotional discomfort of stillness, the pressure to "earn" downtime, and why so many of us—especially parents and overachievers—find it easier to stay busy than to slow down.
We also talk about the cultural messaging that ties our worth to our output, the guilt that creeps in during moments of rest, and how we can start to unlearn it. If you've ever felt like you need to "accomplish something" before you can relax, this conversation will help you reframe rest as necessary—not a reward.
Listen in and let's challenge the narrative that rest has to be justified.
Recommended LINKS:
Better with Daffnee podcast homepage: https://www.daffneecohen.com/podcast/
Connect on Instagram: @Daffnee
Learn more at daffneecohen.com
By Daffnee & Torri5
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Why is it so hard to just be? In this episode, we unpack the tension between knowing we need rest… and still choosing productivity instead. From cleaning baseboards to reorganizing closets, we explore the emotional discomfort of stillness, the pressure to "earn" downtime, and why so many of us—especially parents and overachievers—find it easier to stay busy than to slow down.
We also talk about the cultural messaging that ties our worth to our output, the guilt that creeps in during moments of rest, and how we can start to unlearn it. If you've ever felt like you need to "accomplish something" before you can relax, this conversation will help you reframe rest as necessary—not a reward.
Listen in and let's challenge the narrative that rest has to be justified.
Recommended LINKS:
Better with Daffnee podcast homepage: https://www.daffneecohen.com/podcast/
Connect on Instagram: @Daffnee
Learn more at daffneecohen.com