She found out her boyfriend was getting engaged from a LOVE LETTER...we'll find out about his other relationship(s) when we break down this weeks break up. - This week we're raising awareness for SafeHouse in Denver: https://safehouse-denver.org/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (03:19): How they met - (06:39): When she felt like something was wrong.... - (10:00): When she starts looking for proof of infidelity - (13:53): The Love Letter - (18:04): What the other GF found out - (22:00): Reflecting on his infidelity - (26:17): How she decided to leave her relationship - (29:31): Her novel, The Traitor Within - (39:50): Teaser - [CONTENT WARNINGS: suicidal ideation] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When she found a love letter from his other GF.... - S4E18

When True Love feels more like a True Crime Story....Abby is ready to investigate! Breaking Up is hard to do (obviously) but it's even harder when social media is involved. If your relationship is on display, people are noticing...especially when it ends. We talk to couples and individuals about their break ups. What went wrong? What things did they work through to try and make it work? We'll learn from them and take valuable lessons from their experience while sharing a laugh (or cry) along the way. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Society & Culture

Personal Journals

History

Philosophy

Places & Travel

Relationships

'When she was catfished for 8 years' live episode for purchase: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When she was catfished for 8 years.... - Live Event Trailer

Thank you to Candice from The Christian Closet for coming on!: https://www.thechristiancloset.com/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Break Down Bonus: The Struggles being LGBTQ+ in the Christian Community w/ The Christian Closet

The BUBD Live Podcast Recording release has been postponed- will be available June 18th, 2024 - This week we're raising awareness for Friends of Yates in Kansas City: https://friendsofyates.org/FOY/?page_id=55 - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (04:52): How they met - (09:58): The first break up - (12:01): When they got back together - (15:53): The second break up - (19:37): Their secret engagement - (24:24): The end of their relationship - (30:07): Why her friends were concerned about their relationship - (34:46): Reflecting on the relationship - (37:05): Advice - (40:57): Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When she got engaged to someone else after the break up(s).... - S4Replay

[SCROLL FOR CW] - Saying we have a lot to unpack from S3E11 would be an understatement. Trauma therapist Katherine Ripley joins the podcast again to explain the difference between Intimate Partner Violence and Domestic Violence. She explains how to identify it and how to plain a safe exit strategy if you or someone you love finds yourself in an abusive relationship. - Follow Katherine Ripley, LMSW: linktr.ee/katherineripleytherapist - Follow the podcast - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Intro - (00:27): Defining the difference between domestic violence and intimate partner violence. - (04:18): Early signs that your partner may become abusive - (09:24): How to create a safe exit plan if you're in an abusive relationship - (11:48): Why victims may return to their abusers - (13:55): How to accept that the person you love is abusive - (16:17): First steps for victims of IPV - (18:12): Words of encouragement for victims - CW: Domestic Violence/Abuse Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Break Down Bonus: How to identify intimate partner violence in relationships w/ Katherine Ripley, LMSW

[SCROLL FOR CW]  - This episode originally aired on March 21st, 2023. - This week we're bringing awareness to Bridges Domestic Violence Center near Nashville, TN: https://www.bridgesdvc.org/donate/ - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (06:08): How they met - (11:04): Introducing Sarah - (12:27): How the couple became a throuple - (22:28): When she decided she wanted out of the throuple - (29:38): When the police were called - (32:10): When charges were pressed - (43:08): When she went to jail - (53:01): When she went to trial for the first charges - (01:05:00): Reflecting on what she's learned - (01:14:00): Teaser - CW: This episode discusses domestic violence, thoughts of suicide, child abuse, sexual assault, and gun violence. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When she found a love letter from his other GF.... - S4E18

Download our free app to listen on your phone