This week we're raising awareness for Friends of Yates in Kansas City: https://friendsofyates.org/FOY/?page_id=55 - YOU'RE INVITED TO THE BREAK UP BREAK DOWN BRUNCH: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/break-up-break-down-brunch-sept-23rd-tickets-667893356007?aff=oddtdtcreator - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (04:52): How they met - (06:58): The first break up - (09:01): When they got back together - (12:53): The second break up - (16:37): Their secret engagement - (21:24): The end of their relationship - (27:07): Why her friends were concerned about their relationship - (31:46): Reflecting on the relationship - (34:05): Advice - (37:57): Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When she got engaged to someone else after the break up(s).... - S4E11

When True Love feels more like a True Crime Story....Abby is ready to investigate! Breaking Up is hard to do (obviously) but it's even harder when social media is involved. If your relationship is on display, people are noticing...especially when it ends. We talk to couples and individuals about their break ups. What went wrong? What things did they work through to try and make it work? We'll learn from them and take valuable lessons from their experience while sharing a laugh (or cry) along the way. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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[SCROLL FOR CW] - Saying we have a lot to unpack from S3E11 would be an understatement. Trauma therapist Katherine Ripley joins the podcast again to explain the difference between Intimate Partner Violence and Domestic Violence. She explains how to identify it and how to plain a safe exit strategy if you or someone you love finds yourself in an abusive relationship. - Follow Katherine Ripley, LMSW: linktr.ee/katherineripleytherapist - Follow the podcast - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Intro - (00:27): Defining the difference between domestic violence and intimate partner violence. - (04:18): Early signs that your partner may become abusive - (09:24): How to create a safe exit plan if you're in an abusive relationship - (11:48): Why victims may return to their abusers - (13:55): How to accept that the person you love is abusive - (16:17): First steps for victims of IPV - (18:12): Words of encouragement for victims - CW: Domestic Violence/Abuse Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Break Down Bonus: How to identify intimate partner violence in relationships w/ Katherine Ripley, LMSW

[SCROLL FOR CW]  - This episode originally aired on March 21st, 2023. - This week we're bringing awareness to Bridges Domestic Violence Center near Nashville, TN: https://www.bridgesdvc.org/donate/ - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (06:08): How they met - (11:04): Introducing Sarah - (12:27): How the couple became a throuple - (22:28): When she decided she wanted out of the throuple - (29:38): When the police were called - (32:10): When charges were pressed - (43:08): When she went to jail - (53:01): When she went to trial for the first charges - (01:05:00): Reflecting on what she's learned - (01:14:00): Teaser - CW: This episode discusses domestic violence, thoughts of suicide, child abuse, sexual assault, and gun violence. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When he had her arrested.... - S3Replay

Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (01:05): Submission #1 - (03:32): Submission #2 - (05:29): Submission #3 - (07:24): Submission #4 - (12:49): Submission #5 - (14:24): Submission #6 - (15:57): Submission #7 - (17:09): Submission #8 - (20:01): Submission #9 - (22:58): Submission #10 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When the break up mysteries hadn't been solved yet.... - S5Finale

Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Break Down Bonus: Is this sugar baby thing legit?! w/ ExCoworker Justin

Your sugar daddy of 3ish months goes MIA right before your big vacation...when all of a sudden you get a ransom note from his # asking for 500k. Obviously a scam right?! This week's guest got way more than she bargained for when he finally came back into her life....and revealed the months long investigation he as a part of. What went down?! Let's find out when we break down this week's break up.  - This Week We're Raising Awareness for Green House 17 in Lexington, KY: www.greenhouse17.org - Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8 - Follow the podcast! - Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/ - Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/ - The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ - Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 - Timestamps: - (00:00): Episode Intro - (03:45): How they met - (18:24): When the went MIA - (27:24): When he came back - (32:00): Where did he go for all those months? - (49:33): Looking back on her sugaring experiences - (54:46): Advice/reflection - (58:00): Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When she got engaged to someone else after the break up(s).... - S4E11

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