In this episode, we discuss why you might feel the need to bring up past betrayals even years later. We explore what it means if you can’t stop talking about it. Plus, we offer advice for the guys on how to have these difficult conversations, and give you alternative options if your partner doesn’t want to talk about it.

00:00 Introduction

00:16 It’s a sign

03:23 When guys say, “But you forgave me!” (absolution)

04:22 When to stop talking about it? (90% trust)

05:18 Yes, keep talking, but… (one caveat)

06:23 Solutions: Three options if he won’t talk about it***

07:32 Friends/Family (Solution: how to find out if they’re safe)***

09:09 Guys: an option to BOLDLY face it all

09:57 “I don’t want to talk about this right now… (or any more)”

10:34 Regarding bringing it up to your husband (deathbed listening)

12:26 One thing to keep in mind (short phrases, repeated back)

13:07 Options for Guys (the car wreck)***

15:29 Your Nobility (1 in 8 Billion)

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https://thecouplecure.com/contact-me/ - Jay and Lori's website

https://pornpainhealed.com/contact-me/ - Lori's site for betrayed partners

https://porniskillingme.com/contact-me/ - Jay's site for porn addiction recovery

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