In this follow-up to my “emotionally unavailable” episode, I take you with me into therapy—and spoiler alert, there’s a plot twist. I realized I might not actually be attracted to emotionally unavailable people after all. Instead, it’s that things (and people) can look great on paper, but when it comes time for the in-person vibe check… there’s nothing there. In this episode, I unpack what real chemistry feels like for me, how I’ve been learning to trust my instincts, and why butterflies and brain-based attraction still matter. Also featuring: guest interruptions from my emotional support cat.