TheArriving

When the World's Eyes Feel Too Big


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What do we do when the world's eyes feel a little too big? We start out this episode with a light, fun story told by Selah's grandma. Usually these elder intro stories will be related to the topic, but you try asking old people about the fear of being perceived! After the story, Selah and Luke get right into it by sharing their personal experiences with this fear of being perceived, and discussing why they think it's not really something that is being talked about/ studied. They delve into the different situations and pressures that lead many young people to developing this fear. Luke finishes the convo off with some stellar advice on how to deal with this fear and help others going through the same thing. To end the episode, Luke and Selah share some songs that relate to the topic.

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Elder Story (01:38) Conversation on the Fear of Being Perceived (03:21) Music Segment (46:06)

RELEVANT LINKS/INFO

Definition of fear of being perceived used in this conversation: a phenomenon where one longs to not be known or thought about in any capacity. This phenomenon affects a great amount of Generation Z and "fear of being perceived" is a known phrase in various social media worlds and is frequently seen in memes. 

Articles on the social media side of this fear: 

These 'being perceived' memes will leave you feeling very perceived indeed- The Tab

The latest online craze is submitting to the mortifying ordeal of being known -The Verge 

We talk about how kids these days feel like they can't make any mistakes or have any embarrassing moments because of the immense pressure social media causes, for a real life example check out this video of social media star Quenlin Blackwell giving advice like, "if you're a teenager on social media, get the f**k off and go make mistakes without the world seeing" and talking about her experience with accidentally becoming a meme. Quenlin talks from 0:20 to 3:30. 

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