Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante

When Truth Becomes a Feeling: Moral Relativism and Legacy Dads


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🎧 Episode Description

In this episode, we dive into the latest research from Barna on how Americans view truth and morality. The findings reveal a culture increasingly skeptical of moral absolutes and more reliant on personal feelings and pluralistic sources of truth. As dads who want to pass on a legacy of clarity, conviction, and faith, we'll explore what this means for our families, our faith, and how we model truth for the next generation.

🧭 Key Segments & Topics

1. Setting the Scene – What the Research Says

  • The survey shows ≈ 74% of adults say they trust their feelings over facts when discerning moral truth. George Barna+2George Barna+2

  • Only a minority believe in moral absolutes; many believe moral truth is relative to circumstances. George Barna+3Barna Group+3George Barna+3

  • A large portion of Americans accept the idea that "different moral truth-views can all be right." George Barna+1

  • Even among Christian-identified groups, significant percentages reject or doubt absolute moral truth. George Barna+2George Barna+2

2. Why This Matters for Dads & Families

  • When truth becomes something you feel rather than something you know or are rooted in, it affects how we model decision-making for our kids.

  • Legacy is about more than providing; it's about imparting a worldview. If that worldview is unstable or shifting with culture, the next generation inherits confusion.

  • The article warns: societies without shared, stable moral references risk becoming fragmented, morally ambiguous or anchored only in emotion. George Barna+1

  • As fathers, we're gatekeepers for our homes: of truth, character, and generational faith. So what do we do when our culture says "each person decides their truth"?

3. Practical Applications – What You Can Do

  • Anchor in a stable source: Encourage family conversations about why you believe what you believe — not just what.

  • Model decision-making: Show your children how you arrive at right vs wrong. Is it "how I feel" or "what is true / what does Scripture say / what is right"?

  • Discuss pluralism & relativism honestly: If our kids are hearing that all truth-views are valid, we need to equip them to think critically and biblically.

  • Create opportunities for reflection: Ask your children (depending on age) "What basis did you use to decide that was okay or not okay?"

  • Teach the big story: Legacy is long-term. Morality isn't just a list of do's and don'ts, but a story of a God who is truth, and lives that flow from that.

4. Conversation Starters for Your Family

  • "What do you believe defines right and wrong?"

  • "Have you ever changed your mind about something because of how you felt? What did you base that on?"

  • "Why do you think some people believe truth depends on the situation?"

  • "If someone says 'that's true for you but not for me,' how would you respond?"

  • "What difference does it make if truth is absolute vs relative?"

5. Legacy Dad Challenge This week: Pick one moral/ethical decision you face (big or small). Walk your child(ren) through how you came to your decision: What basis did you use? Was it simply how you felt? Or did you consult Scripture, your conscience, parental wisdom, cultural norms? After making the decision, revisit it: "Was that the wisest basis? Would I make the same decision next time with what I now know?"

🔍 Recommended Further Reading & Resources
  • The original article on Barna's site: "Survey Finds Americans See Many Sources of Truth—and Reject Moral Absolutes." George Barna

  • Barna's deeper breakdown: "Americans Possess Contradictory and Unbiblical Views about Moral Truth." George Barna

  • "The End of Absolutes: America's New Moral Code" (Barna archive). Barna Group

🎯 Take-Away Points for Listeners
  • The cultural current is moving toward "truth according to me/feelings," rather than fixed moral truth.

  • As fathers wanting to build a legacy, we must choose to anchor our families in something more stable — not just personal preference.

  • Modeling how to live with conviction, how to think about truth, how to navigate moral decisions — that becomes part of our legacy.

  • It's not enough to tell our kids what's right; we show them how we determine right.

  • When the culture says "all truths are valid," the Christian father says: "Let's explore why I believe one truth is true, and how that matters for how we live."

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