01.13.2020 - By Katayune Kaeni, Psy.D., PMH-C
Welcome to a new year! This is a monumental year for me, as it marks ten years since I was pregnant with my daughter and experienced postpartum depression, anxiety, and OCD. I never dreamed back then that I would be where I am today, trying to help moms and families because of my personal mental health experience. In today’s show, I’ll reflect on those thoughts and feelings that were so overwhelming for me.
Show Highlights:
As I look back, it’s easier to have compassion and a lighter heart about my experiences than it was a few years ago
My planned and wanted pregnancy was actually a break for me from the ups and downs of PMS
How I realized with reflection that anxiety was present in my life even before my pregnancy
How it felt like I had done something wrong when I experienced a bleeding episode during my pregnancy
Why positive and negative experiences get woven together as you reflect on the past
The shame and guilt that came with my mental health condition
Because of our deepest vulnerabilities, we don’t want to feel our feelings or talk about them
The shame, anger, and fear that make you feel alone
How scary and intrusive thoughts become traumatizing
Why good, specific therapy is crucial
My favorite parts of therapy in helping moms realize they aren’t crazy
Why I urge you to see a perinatal mental health specialist, join a support group, or find resources to get the help you need
The year I spent in an emotional freak-out space, feeling broken and alone
Finding a safe person to talk to who will understand
Why I am 100% sure that you can get better, too
Resources:
Postpartum
PSI Directory
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